Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

Theres this girl whom i have the chance of contacting and possibly starting up something again. ive been thinking about it a lot and it would be great to have her by my side again yet at the same time if that was to happen then i know that my school work would be affected as my mind would wander and daydream as it did before. also, my mind would be clouded with such thoughts of her and i that it would be a miracle to get any work done...but yet you know when your mind wants something and you just need to have it? Well its her..

So what should i do?

I was thinking perhaps keep at it with school and still contact and have the best of both worlds, which is easier said than done.. is it possible? You know?

Hmmmm...

HMMMMMMM....

2006-10-27 22:39:26 · 11 answers · asked by Legionnaire 1 in Singles & Dating

what quality(s) do you look for when meeting a prospective partner?

2006-10-27 22:37:54 · 15 answers · asked by kentkat666 2 in Singles & Dating

Say if you were in a club and this 'girl' you pulled looked fantastic, you took 'her' home and got 'her' naked and 'she' turned out to have meat and two veg would you still go with the flow as 'she' still looks female or would you throw 'her' out?

2006-10-27 22:37:27 · 16 answers · asked by pfodd125 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 22:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by tyrano_bot 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to know how the marriage is(from many points of view). couse i am about to get merried within a year. CLARIFY IT TO ME

2006-10-27 22:35:34 · 6 answers · asked by Hisham 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She's 29, I'm 27. I love her. I haven't loved before and am worried that this Indian saying is true: "The lane of love is narrow - there is room for only one".

We met 3 months ago. She has a boyfriend for 9 years who she is happy with. I see her almost every day.

But she now says things like I have made her feel things she's never felt before.

She's an amazing girl. Very intelligent, very kind, very caring. Loads of fun and exciting.

I want to see her every day, every minute. It breaks my heart that she might not feel the same way.

After sex the other night she told me she loves me, but it was after sex so it doesn't count, and i told her that, even though I wish I could believe it. She also told me last week that if I had to ask her out, she probably wouldn't be able to say no.

She's confused at the moment - she doesn;t see her boyfriend much - he's staying 50 miles away. But she gets on really well with him

I'm worried she's using me for sex only- am I right?

2006-10-27 22:32:19 · 4 answers · asked by needsadviceonlove 1 in Singles & Dating

I am very said that I cant be there with my family.
but my heart is already there and started cooking the steaks.

2006-10-27 22:32:03 · 1 answers · asked by soyoungdervin 1 in Family

2006-10-27 22:31:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife of 6 years left me after i came home from work. She is from the U.S and moved back there with her family. I live in London, U.K, but she says she does not want a divorce, she still loves me but wants our marriage anulled. I was not a good husband, but she was not a good wife, I still love her very much and offered to go to coucelling etc to sort things out. How can i win her back, even though she says she wants to start a new life.

2006-10-27 22:31:18 · 17 answers · asked by Joeyjo75 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just been dumped.got on so well , no argumentsd, hes just pickled coz hes trying to sort his life out..........pushed me away and its hurting coz the problem wasnt us.came out of the blue coz id only been at hospital that afternoon and he was texting me, affectionately( as usual).this has hit me for six and he goes ito himself,rather than talk about his problems.an ex of his has recently begun talking to him again too. im really down in the dumps

2006-10-27 22:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by bmw.girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to make comparisons between one year and a more recent year, eg 1996 and 2006 for couples in Germany, whether they have children, whether they are married, whether they have been divorced.... and I can't find anything helpful online! Do any of you happen to know any of these statistics?

2006-10-27 22:28:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiancee let me borrow his laptop tonight until I can get a new computer in a few weeks since mine messed up. Well, I found that he had a porno downloaded on here but deleted it. I dont care that he had downloaded one but I went to the site he got it from ( the link to it was on the file ) and its a homemade porno video site and he has a membership there and didnt tell me. Its not a big deal but it sorta hurt he kept something little from me like that. But anyone here is my problem. The site is like myhomemadeporn.com or something, and me and him has made videos on my webcam and they are on his laptop. I didnt think he would show anyone but im scared he might of uploaded it on that site. Im going to confront him in a few hours but im so scared and i got sick to my stomach when i found out. Not just because i could be naked on that site but because i feel betrayed to. Im scared if I ask him he will say no there isnt and could be lying. What should i do? Thanks everyone.

2006-10-27 22:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I date this guys and we are almost at the same height if i wear high heels i would be taller . everytime i went out with him i would never wear them. it might sound stupid but do you think is it a big deal to him ? if i wear high heels.

2006-10-27 22:27:13 · 8 answers · asked by vimsy 2 in Singles & Dating

Since 3years i am in love with a boy who is in U.S. i met him through online became best friends then turned to love soon. He asked me to do nursing i have tried a lot after finishing my degree, so i plan to join for nursing next year but in todays news paper i read that nursing diploma courses are going to close. i cant do Bsc nursing coz i did 12th commerce and i am a graduate in commerce, if i want nursing i can take only general nursing diploma but indian central govt passed an act to stop general nursing course. so i am not seeing any other way to do nursing, my boy friend is saying if you are not a nurse i wont marry you. I am so mad about him, i will die for his love but he is not trying to understand me, he want me to do nursing he is not interested in another course. his family will allow only a nurse to marry him also he is interested only in a nurse. i hail from a financial sound family with educated back ground, i dont know whether my dad will support for this marriage but

2006-10-27 22:26:18 · 12 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

-She basically wants me sleeping with her every night. Not a guess, she SAID it. I'm not there tonoght since I felt like watching Seinfeld and making my Mr. T costume for holloween! Earlier, she said "ya go out with your friends tonight, you can come over anytime, even if it's late, I'll leave the door unlocked". Didn't go out, stayed home doing the above..around 11pm, she called, mad/sad because I wasn't there with her..
-Made me 4 lunches so far, and has driven across the city to leave them at my door (seriously). Now I know that's nice but (scrunches up face) three weeks!??
-She writes "have a good day.." type msgs on the napkins in the lunch and ends them with "love"
-I've stalled her sex wants by saying I want us to get STD tests
am I crazy to question someone being THIS nice to me? Just doesn't seem right. 3 weeks! Are you kidding me?? Do I like her you ask? I don't know, I guess, she makes me lunches lol but, IT'S ONLY BEEN 3 WEEKS! I'm 29, she's 24. opinions pls!

2006-10-27 22:24:06 · 12 answers · asked by brentneilalexander 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 22:23:55 · 9 answers · asked by Niranjan 3 in Singles & Dating

I told my bf that we really need to clean up his house. We r living together in a big bungalow.

Since im working 9-6 now, i cannot afford to keep up with the housework on a weekend. Besides.. im only a gf.

His sis and bro no longer cares abt this house their mum left them. And there are disputes over this house.

he offered to do the housework tog at first, and hasnt kept his word since.

I admit i am very frustrated and so i got a part timer housekeeper to come and do the job.

He told me off saying that we will b staying for the next few months and movin out soon (BTW he took 3 weeks and hasnt got a property agent yet)

And he said If i dont wanna listen, fine!

And so i got hurt and i told him .."it was nice of me to offer to clean up this house, and i care cause we r the one staying in the house."

before i can finish and stop at "it was nice of me to stay....."
he told me if its nice of me to stay i can move out. WTF!
so i told him i will.and nxt morning he wanna hug me to slp

2006-10-27 22:22:58 · 6 answers · asked by Joan20 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 22:22:04 · 5 answers · asked by katta 1 in Friends

okay, well my grandpa [from dads side] is half syrian half white he married a white woman, and had my dad. my dad married a white woman, and had me.
umm, but surprisingly, i just found out my great great grandpa from my moms side was black. he married a white woman, had my great grandpa, hwe married a white woman had my grandma, she married a white man [well kinda white b/c he has syrian in him] and they had me!!
so how much percentage of everything am i?

2006-10-27 22:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Londoners♥ 1 in Family

i was married at a young age to a graet man with a huge family, life was too worst and is still and i cant come out of the marraige coz my husband is a darling.,i have 2 kids,i am not educated,only 10 th, my parents dont support me ,my husband does not want to seprate and i am sick of living a life in a jail,i dont have freedom nor friends to help ,and i am confused where, if i have married my husband or his family ,god can u please help me to come out of this jail unfortunatly i too good took at so i can run away too and then my kids are there too

2006-10-27 22:18:46 · 3 answers · asked by rita 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was married at a young age to a graet man with a huge family, life was too worst and is still and i cant come out of the marraige coz my husband is a darling.,i have 2 kids,i am not educated,only 10 th, my parents dont support me ,my husband does not want to seprate and i am sick of living a life in a jail,i dont have freedom nor friends to help ,and i am confused where, if i have married my husband or his family ,god can u please help me to come out of this jail unfortunatly i too good took at so i can run away too and then my kids are there too

2006-10-27 22:18:06 · 7 answers · asked by rita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the man i love.... i know he likes me and he likes to spend time with me... but he never want our relation to move forward...he wants us just to be lovers but not a couple and he doesn't want our relation to be official (so that everybody knows that we are together)

2006-10-27 22:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by Tamara C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think that girls are more crazy at school than boys.they want to be main topic in everything,right?

2006-10-27 22:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by Grom 3 in Friends

My dad past away last year. my grandpa( mom's dad ) died and 2 weeks later grandpa's lil bro died.Mom and us kids have been through alot. No to mention financial problems. My parents house got broken into 4 times. My little brother broke in the house.He is over 21 and he no longer lives with us. So i can u see its a mess.

I havent worked in over 2 years since i stopped to look after mom who had health prob & granny (mom's mom) who has dementia ,is blind and cant walk.

Before dad died, i wanted to go to harvard and get my master degree. I also wanted to move out of canada and live in boston for awhile and then come back. But now i hesitating to do so. my brother want otherwise.My mom , hesitate to leave behind. A close friend of the family( close friend of mom) claims that i should move and live my life and start making my own path.Im 29 and i feel stuck.

I dont know wheter to go ahead and try to live my dreams or not. Help? what should i do?

2006-10-27 22:10:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The person who answers this should be a good friend of someone

2006-10-27 22:08:56 · 17 answers · asked by yaso 1 in Friends

2006-10-27 22:08:15 · 26 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

Thesedays, I like someone.
But he is smaller than me.
Neverthelsee, I like him.
My friends are opposing that I'll be more friendly with him.
In Asia, most people think man should be taller than woman.
Is it like that in Western?

^^

p.s.
I want to make many foreigner friends.
My email address is pretty_jennie20@yahoo.com
I'll be thankful if you register my account into your yahoo messenger.

bye~^^

2006-10-27 22:07:40 · 11 answers · asked by Jinhee Y 1 in Singles & Dating

she arrives here in tassie in 2 weeks and I want her to meet the rest of my family before my parents, my parents are good but I just want to make things easier for her you know.....so do I have her meet my parents first or the rest of the family before hand?

thanks all
Mitch

2006-10-27 22:06:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She is sleeping. she realizes what she has done and she is upset. She said she hasnt done anything wrong behind my back yet. I have had a thing not trusting her for two years. This is why. I am blamed for being a paranoid. I do love her but I wanted to spend my life with her and i dont want to get hurt. Here i am at work and she is at home searching online for some guy named Nathan. I dont know why i am banging my head over her. My van is packed but its a long drive to ontario from calgary. I will miss my daughter so much.

2006-10-27 22:03:07 · 10 answers · asked by Candy C 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married to a woman because I impregnated her. I felt that I needed to take responsibility for my irresponsibility and now I suffer. I live with a woman that loves me and yet I am apathetic in every form toward her. We have a daughter, whom I feel nothing for as well - I am not a good father. I feel lost in a fog encircled path with no future in sight. I do not love her and it is tearing apart what little humanity I have left in my tired body. In addition, I bought a house and am scared to break it off due to financial reasons as well as my own cowardice. A day does not pass where I regret my decision. Should I sell my house and pay off our new car first? She can have everything, I do not care; I just want my life back. Even though I am a horrible person, I am entitled to living a life worth living on my own terms - right? Although she is a great person, I cannot find it within my power to love her like a husband should. She deserves someone that will truly love her, for her.

2006-10-27 22:00:53 · 14 answers · asked by Unfortunate Soul 2 in Marriage & Divorce