She's 29, I'm 27. I love her. I haven't loved before and am worried that this Indian saying is true: "The lane of love is narrow - there is room for only one".
We met 3 months ago. She has a boyfriend for 9 years who she is happy with. I see her almost every day.
But she now says things like I have made her feel things she's never felt before.
She's an amazing girl. Very intelligent, very kind, very caring. Loads of fun and exciting.
I want to see her every day, every minute. It breaks my heart that she might not feel the same way.
After sex the other night she told me she loves me, but it was after sex so it doesn't count, and i told her that, even though I wish I could believe it. She also told me last week that if I had to ask her out, she probably wouldn't be able to say no.
She's confused at the moment - she doesn;t see her boyfriend much - he's staying 50 miles away. But she gets on really well with him
I'm worried she's using me for sex only- am I right?
2006-10-27 22:32:19 · 4 answers · asked by needsadviceonlove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe she maybe using you for sex. So you should leave her. If she can have sex with you behind her boyfriend, one day she can do the same to you. If you realised the truth fact by then, I think it is too late coz you may be angry that you won't even know what you will do to her.
So you have to made the decision yourself.
2006-10-28 00:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave her , the sooner the better. She is using you for sex and gets a kick out of it. Why do you want to be with somebody who is cheating on her boyfriend? If she can do it to him, what makes you think she wont do it to you later on?
2006-10-27 22:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will no longer be able to "get her" to go away her boyfriend. a a lot as this is gunna harm, you in simple terms could desire to be there for her. Be that guy that she runs to whilst her BF is an ***. Be candy to her, without hitting on her. you're able to desire to attend it out and be as magnificent as achievable without seeming such as you're attempting to scouse borrow her. in case you attempt to rigidity her and he or she does go away her boyfriend for you she could land up resenting you on the grounds that she by no skill have been given to work out "what-if" with the different guy. in simple terms enable issues run their direction and be there for her whilst it ends.
2016-12-16 15:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a cheater, unfaithful type. why would you fall for someone like that? She's just using you for sexual needs because her bf is far away and she's cheating on him so don't you ever realized that she would do it to you also in the future? Think...
2006-10-27 22:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋