-She basically wants me sleeping with her every night. Not a guess, she SAID it. I'm not there tonoght since I felt like watching Seinfeld and making my Mr. T costume for holloween! Earlier, she said "ya go out with your friends tonight, you can come over anytime, even if it's late, I'll leave the door unlocked". Didn't go out, stayed home doing the above..around 11pm, she called, mad/sad because I wasn't there with her..
-Made me 4 lunches so far, and has driven across the city to leave them at my door (seriously). Now I know that's nice but (scrunches up face) three weeks!??
-She writes "have a good day.." type msgs on the napkins in the lunch and ends them with "love"
-I've stalled her sex wants by saying I want us to get STD tests
am I crazy to question someone being THIS nice to me? Just doesn't seem right. 3 weeks! Are you kidding me?? Do I like her you ask? I don't know, I guess, she makes me lunches lol but, IT'S ONLY BEEN 3 WEEKS! I'm 29, she's 24. opinions pls!
2006-10-27 22:24:06 · 12 answers · asked by brentneilalexander 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is good if she likes u.
send her many cards,flowers,gifts,toys,fotoframes etc. in a single hour.
den ,when she calls u up,tell her.
dont wait pal,do it now.
gooood luck!
2006-10-27 22:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by sid 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she likes you alot !! Sometimes in life, a person comes into your life that you just have an immediate connection with, and it sounds like she is feeling that towards you. The little things like the lunches and the notes on your napkins, are just her way of letting you know that. The unfortunate thing is that you aren't feeling that same way about her. Sounds like she's heading for a big disappointment, and she at least deserves for you to be honest with her about that. So I say, tell her now, tell her today, prolonging it will only further increase her unrequited feeligs for you and make it even harder in the end.
2006-10-27 22:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by LofanNui 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a bit of a nymphomaniac to me. I couldn't handle a girlfriend like that. Between her and a kid, I'd never have time for sleep.
All you need now is to get her a job at a bottleshop, and you'll have every guy's dream.
Nah, seriously though. If she is becoming a hassle to you and demanding things from you every night, then you probably should dump her. If you can only say that "you guess" that you like her, then chances are, you aren't very fond of her at all. More like what she can do for you.
If I were you, I'd let her down gently and pass her off to some chronic masturbator and it'll make them both happy.
2006-10-27 22:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Maul 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to have a talk with her since she is possessive and is going the speed of a Porsche per hour! first and foremost in 3 weeks you do not even know the person or rather sleep with them! she seems to me that she has no values, morals or does not care ! after 3 weeks you hold hands and go on dates and kiss but not what she wants you to do! tell her that you think that it is too early to sleep with her because you need to know her more. then get to know her better before she turns out to be those gf from hell and all possessive! if all she thinks about is sex, and making you her universe she seems like one imature gf who does not know what she is doing or wants! she seems as though she is easy since her values and yours do not match up as well as inconsiderate to some extent because she just wants to sleep with you and that that is her whole purpose in this relationship! she is using you for sex! plus, no girl would do half of the stuff that she is trying to pull off! if you having a talk with her does not help maybe calling the relationship off will and you can go and find a nice and decent girl who has actual value as well as morals and not such a ***** and imature! bets of luck!
2006-10-27 22:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOAH DUDE... you've got yourself a possessive lover! It's contradictory to how she tells you that you can come round to her place anytime and then throws a tantrum for not going. Don't mind me saying it but I think she's a little unscrewed up there... or at least in the love department. But seriously, you need to have a good heart to heart talk with her (note: she may be really pissed at you, so watch out)
2006-10-27 22:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you bragging?
I say go with the flow mate.
it took me a year to get my lass to make me lunch.
But it worries me that you would choose Seinfeld re-runs over sometin sometin.
Ending notes with love is a standerd so don't let that worry you. but if she seems obsessive then it's time to worry. and my best advice to you on that is not to break up or anything give her some of your time but make it boring when shes bored enough she'll back off.
if you break it off with an obsessed girl your ride will get all keyed up and bricks will be thrown at your bedroom windows...
2006-10-27 22:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by ninhalo1973 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in this story. Infact it seems the girl is either madly in love with you or is just too HUNGRY (for love & sex). Keep going. As from the story it seems you are not at all in love with her and are just playing around. If she is good, settle down and look forward to a great life with her. This type of girls are rare to find. You can find girls who either just fall in love ending in bed and then walk out or those who just play around and then move on. She has done everything and still wants to hang on.
You seem to have been blessed!!!
2006-10-27 22:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like she fell in love with you quickly or needs somebody with her & to take care of.
You two need to talk to openly let each other know how you feel, if not she could be in for a heartache down the road if you don't think you'll love her.
2006-10-27 22:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by skymastergolfpro 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she sounds a bit OCD about the relationship. She's going way too fast for a newer relationship. Run away while you still can.
2006-10-27 22:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy that there is someone willing to give a little effort towards you. If I was you I would play it cool. Just take things for what they are and not look to deep into it. Enjoy how she is to you and just take if from there.
2006-10-27 22:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
she sounds extremely NEEDY, and you don't sound ready to give her what she needs. it sounds like major trouble. my advice is, get away while the getting's good! the longer you stay, the more hysterical she will be at the break-up.
2006-10-27 22:31:19 · answer #11 · answered by domangelo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋