She is sleeping. she realizes what she has done and she is upset. She said she hasnt done anything wrong behind my back yet. I have had a thing not trusting her for two years. This is why. I am blamed for being a paranoid. I do love her but I wanted to spend my life with her and i dont want to get hurt. Here i am at work and she is at home searching online for some guy named Nathan. I dont know why i am banging my head over her. My van is packed but its a long drive to ontario from calgary. I will miss my daughter so much.
2006-10-27 22:03:07 · 10 answers · asked by Candy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I disagree with everyone else.
if you have trust problems with her the last 2 years well that sounds like something your not going to get over easily now.
relationships without 100% trust will fail 100%.
Nathen could be nothing, a friend, someone to talk to, an imaginary lover I don't really think online romance is exactly cheating unless a real meeting is involved.
It's a hard choice to make and with kids involved it'll be even harder.
Canada is filled with some of the most beautiful girls I've seen so you know you have a great variety waiting for you.
the best I can say is if your arguing more and more and the sex is getting less and less. well get out now cause it will never get better. it takes equal effort to make a relationship work and if your both not willing to give it your all than it will fail and you'll be missing out on other girls maybe the perfect girl and your own happiness
2006-10-27 22:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by ninhalo1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have trust issues that you need to work through. If she has been honest enough to let you know she is looking for someone on the internet then there is no way she is going to cheat on you.
Communication is a big thing in relationships, and I think that you need to talk openly and honestly about how you feel. This does not mean that you can tell another person what to do.
My partner and I are relaxed in that some of my best mates are male, and some of his best mates are female; and we feel no jealousy because we are open, honest and talk about it. We knew when we started seeing each other that we were comfortable being friends with the opposite sex, and didn't wish to change a thing about that person.
Maybe that kind of openess and honesty and communication is needed with the two of you.
As for moving so far away from your daughter, that is harsh, if you have to leave, when not somewhere where you can still have a close relationship with her
2006-10-28 05:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chelles...her answer says it all.
My question is: is your daughter the one sleeping? Cuz otherwise, your s/o cant be sleeping and surfing the web for Nathan.
Sorry, i tend to overanalyze things.
Know that it was probably difficult for your s/o to be honest with you: you should be just as open and honest about your feelings also.
Good luck. Life & Love are sometimes just not so easy.
2006-10-28 05:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by HopeURLuvinLife2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAUGHT BETWEEN THE ROCK & A HARD PLAVCE MATE, AREN'T YOU???
NATHAN COULD BE A BUDDY SHE TRUSTS IN & LOOKS FOR SUPPORT BECAUSE YOU HAVE BEEN ON THIS TRIP TO FIND OUT WHOM IS SHE MESSING AROUND WITH, WHILE IN REALITY SHE HAS BEEN TRYING TO REACH YOU WITHOUT SUCCESS.
PULL OUT OF REGULAR LIFE FOR A WHILE WITH HER & HAVE A MEANINGFUL TALK WITH HER TO GET TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS. DO NOT TALK IF YOU ARE NOT PREPARED TO LISTEN TO HER SIDE OF THE STORY & IF YOU DO NOT ENOUGH TIME.
PARK YOU VAN FOR A BIT WHILE MORE BEFORE YOU JUMP THE GUN.............
GOOD LUCK MATE.
2006-10-28 05:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sarang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very opening conversation with her is the only way to get everything out in the open. Do that & your decssion will be much easier to make.
2006-10-28 05:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by skymastergolfpro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey that is no way to live if you cant trust the one you with u have to ask yourself why? Is it you or has there been flags of evedince popping up of suspect behavior...if so confront all that is needed to be confronted...for closer....you can stillhave a strong and healthy relationship with your child because when she 18 she will remember and understand...
2006-10-28 05:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by x69bw21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i don;t know exactly what u mean.but best thing is to go and talk to her openly rather than loosing a whole family.
2006-10-28 05:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-28 05:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by tmdkshaft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave, you can take naps on the way.
2006-10-28 05:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont leave, either work out your differences or find a marriage counselor, if that doesnt work, find a divorce lawyer and make sure you get custody of your daughter
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2006-10-28 05:05:03 · answer #10 · answered by absoluteao 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋