the man i love.... i know he likes me and he likes to spend time with me... but he never want our relation to move forward...he wants us just to be lovers but not a couple and he doesn't want our relation to be official (so that everybody knows that we are together)
2006-10-27 22:18:06 · 10 answers · asked by Tamara C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
=sounds to me like he is so absorbed with himself and basically never learned to share nor commit. He is fearful yet appears strong and is self-indulgent. Stop being a sperm receptacle and find someone who can commit to you and appreciates you for who you are and is not so selfish.
2006-10-31 14:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are responsible for your own life.
In a relationship both people SHARE life
and not a dependent, like a child would be.
The man you love has issues - maybe he
has other women or he is married.
Let him go - you are better than just being
his bed-partner.
2006-10-28 09:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time with a man that doesn't want to be completely committed to you 100%. you'll end up wasting several years of your life (possibly 10 years) with a man like that doesn't want to get married. is always up to the woman to be strong in order to get out of dead end relationship. believe me, there is tons of men out there that will more than willing to marry you. good luck!
2006-10-28 05:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that he doesn't want other people to know that you are together sounds a bit troubling. i think you should definitely find out why he feels that way, because when you find out, you may change your own mind about where you want this relationship to go!
2006-10-28 05:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by domangelo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just 1 man in a minority best you move on and find true love equally shared.
2006-10-28 05:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by john h 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dey r afraid of carryin responibilities through out life, dats d fact n d one who luvs u ll marry u at any cost
2006-10-28 05:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by randeep s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that's what he wants. my question to you is is that what you want if that is all he wants, he's just using you for sex. is that what you want. I don't think it is 'cause you wouldn't be asking questions. I think, you should ask yourself, is the sex that good that I would let him make a fool out of me. don't cheat yourself. find what it is that you want in a man and don't settle for less.
2006-10-28 05:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is useing u that is all or he might not be sure of himself nor his future, sick man if so or might be he wants to earn more for more stable life for 2 of u ,ask him
2006-10-28 05:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by rita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be hiding something, but doesn't want to say.
Or he might find you hot but doesn't actually like you, i.e. just wants you as a f**k buddy.
2006-10-28 06:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... he's afraid of committment? Either that or he has a really big black skeleton hiding in his closet and he's not telling you.
2006-10-28 05:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋