Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

why is it when your not happy with your partner you feel you must cheat? wouldn't it be easier to just be honest with them and tell them that you are no longer happy? wouldn't this just save time and hurt?

2006-10-27 20:37:18 · 7 answers · asked by TnCouple 2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I still think about a girl I went to school with 12 years ago. Never dated her but wonder what ever happened to her. it is silly of me to want to find out?

2006-10-27 20:29:50 · 28 answers · asked by malisimo 3 in Singles & Dating

i have had this problem for a long time now. i broke up w/ mah ex like more than 2 years ago. i had been feeling bad cuz she got really hurt but i couldnt do anythin about it.i broke up w/ her cuz it was just not workin out well and other reasons. But i feel that even though i had reasons and all, it was still my fault cuz i promised her to be w/ her and stuff and i couldnt keep up w/ it. i explained her mah problems when i broke up w/ her but i guess she doesnt get it. she thinks i am one of those guys who just want to play and leave. after a long time i had said sorry to her and told her that i feel guilty and stuff and she goes like its k, dont worry about it. we r friends now and talk to each other but deep down she hates me for that. i wish i know i can do somethin to get ova that guilt that i got ....do u have any suggestions?

2006-10-27 20:29:47 · 18 answers · asked by kion l 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend admits he feels his heartbeat rising when seeing nude fotos of men.... so i feel he mite b a gay!

2006-10-27 20:29:47 · 24 answers · asked by Geospi 1 in Friends

2006-10-27 20:29:39 · 4 answers · asked by T 1 in Weddings

During a conversation my wife ended up asking me for my sister’s password to her account since she knew I knew the password. I said that it’s not my password to give out.

I work in the IT administrative business and we hold passwords as “gold” so I’m used to never giving out any passwords for anything. I’ve also known my sisters’ password to fix issues (along with other people’s password) since I’m a “fix it” support person to friends/family. She did mention that my sister let her use the password temporarily (which I was there for) to update something, but she did not remember it. My wife ended up saying that she didn’t want it, but just wanted to know that I would give any password it to her and this was a trust issue. I’m I being too retentive on the password issue?

2006-10-27 20:28:55 · 13 answers · asked by Jimmy 1 in Family

2006-10-27 20:28:49 · 22 answers · asked by thespeakeris tooloud 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend and we really seem to like each other, but she's engaged, and naturally she likes her fiance more. i know i should forget her, but it's hard when i like her so much.

then there's this other girl that is available and likes me, but i don't like her!!! i'm trying so hard to like her, because she's the only girl i can be with, but i just don't. why don't things ever just work out? once again, my only choice seems to be to remain single. people who meet "the one" don't know how lucky they are. i know because i dated the girl i wanted to be with for a while, and it was so incredibly great... until she dumped me and promptly met another guy. :(

2006-10-27 20:28:38 · 11 answers · asked by painfullyaverage 3 in Singles & Dating

Why do you not tell us men, when you like us sexually, too often I find out too late to help or do anything about that, ....but if only you would have said something to me about how you feel, maybe it was mutual, and maybe I was single then, and yes we could have, but now it may be too late. So please don't be shy and tell us exactly how you feel when you feel it.....if you wait it may be too late.....

2006-10-27 20:27:44 · 2 answers · asked by wizzard 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 20:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by LaMont s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently met the lover of a lifetime and only see him every few months, but at least once each time have shed tears of complete elation....I was just completely wowed. Afterwards he just stares into my eyes and tears just roll. He doesn't seem bothered and tenderly wipes them one by one with his finger tips, but I wonder? Maybe all women cry when in his arms...damn he's good!

2006-10-27 20:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are married 6 months now. He abused me twice and since he did it for the first time he promised me not to do it again, so he broken his promise and did it again... he yells at me like a crazy... What should I do?? Please give me serious answes.

2006-10-27 20:25:19 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is divorce the only solution to an unhappy maaried life ?

2006-10-27 20:23:58 · 31 answers · asked by kaka_v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if i love her wht happens did u knew

2006-10-27 20:23:23 · 12 answers · asked by abhi 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, she's very sweet. And somewhat of a pushover. Actually NO she's not a pushover, its just that some F U CKxers are forcing over her.

She has a younger sister (8 yrs old) who is a motherf_u__k_er in training. She is spoiled and rotten. She calls her sister FAT (which is not true) and trys steals her friends who are around the ages of 14 and16. She lies immmensly and she is a peice of crap.

Her brothers (one younger & one older) don't do ****. She has to cook, clean and everything. They don't even get their own food or water or anything. They are lazy m----f'ing---- b--tches.

Her younger brother beats her and curses her out.

Her parents don't do ****. And she can't talk to a trusted teacher at school, since most teachers don't like her because she wears a scarf to school since she is muslim.

She's such a saint. I wish I could do something for her.

I know she won't do anything about it. WHAT SHOULD I DO FOR HER WHEN I SEE THEM AGAIN?

2006-10-27 20:21:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-27 20:21:20 · 14 answers · asked by thespeakeris tooloud 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend and we really seem to like each other, but she's engaged, and naturally she likes her fiance more. i know i should forget her, but it's hard when i like her so much.

then there's this other girl that is available and likes me, but i don't like her!!! i'm trying so hard to like her, because she's the only girl i can be with, but i just don't. why don't things ever just work out? once again, my only choice seems to be to remain single. people who meet "the one" don't know how lucky they are. i know because i dated the girl i wanted to be with for a while, and it was so incredibly great... until she dumped me and promptly met another guy. :(

2006-10-27 20:21:05 · 5 answers · asked by painfullyaverage 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-27 20:20:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay... I know this topic has been discussed a lot. But this is different. this has possibility. He is only 8 years older than me... I'm 15, he's 23. He asked me the ages for sagatory rape... he stares at me during class... he gets all flustered when we talk. Look... I know this is crazy... but he got engaged tonight, unless his girlfriend says no, in which case she's mental. He's amazing, though... in a few years, this could actually work if she said no or they split up by then.

He's leaving at the end of the semester... should I try to stay in touch with him to see if this will work out later, or does anyone have a way to forget about it??? I mean, I do amazingly in that class... but I've gotten really depressed over his damn mixed messages and the fact that the only two reasons we're not together are the age gap and his girlfriend. Neither of those may mean much in a future... please... anyone???

2006-10-27 20:19:30 · 19 answers · asked by Emmi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say you never had fights, never got annoyed at them, but the spark was gone

would you stay wth them because of the past?

my main question is, would you stay with them till someone new appeared, who you were more interested in?

If nothings wrong you dont break up, but your not really into the relationship anymore, its more of a friendship.

2006-10-27 20:19:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 20:18:10 · 6 answers · asked by harold 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 20:17:22 · 9 answers · asked by sowmi 3 in Friends

Im just curious, but does size really matter?Im a good 7 1/2 inches, almost 8 on my good days.My wife also says that I am "thick" down there.Im asking this question because I want to know if what my wife is saying is the truth for what most other women prefer.Im in a very loving and sexually explosive marriage, and my wife is simply amazing.She always tell me how "big" and "thick" I am down there, and also says that Im very good,stamina wise.I can go for usually an hour,not including foreplay time.So my question is this-Does size really matteror is it the"motion in the ocean"as everyone likes to say.Or possibly both are equal.I'm very confident in myself,and am no way at all asking this question cause Im looking for another woman or to cheat.I'm just curious to see if I am really"all that",judging by what she tells me,and by your ladies' experiences.I know I'mnot the "biggest"ever by any means,but does it sound like my wife has a good reason to brag to her friends(whichshedoes)?THANKS!

2006-10-27 20:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by ArmyImp 1 in Singles & Dating

i think i am going crazy after an unhappy breakup i have suddenly developed a craving for blood- human blood!!! why is that?omg i am so scared what is weong with me? someone help!

2006-10-27 20:15:52 · 4 answers · asked by confused 3 in Singles & Dating

These jokes:
Yes, I have always wanted to have someone to love, someone to care and share my life with.
Then, I met you and have changed my mind!!!

Congratulations on your promotion. Befor you leave, would you tale the knife out of my back?

When we were together, you always said that you would die for me. Now that we have broke up, would you please go ahead and do it? Be sure you still have me in your will.

Your friends and I wanted to do something special for your birthday, so we are having you put to sleep.

Your daughter's a hooker and it spoiled your day. Look at the bright side, she makes darn good pay.
Can you even match these?

2006-10-27 20:15:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was sober and wanted to drive, but he was getting kind of nasty and grabbed me by the neck and told me I was a *****.. He walked away and I left him in the parking lot. His friend dropped him off to pick up his vehicle (he left it at my house) and he wanted nothing more to do with me at that point. What's up? He said he didn't remember grabbing me like that..

2006-10-27 20:14:09 · 21 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Singles & Dating

we slept (yes actual sleeping) together and he didn't feel me up!
but i was on my period and told him not to feel me up in my sleep so maybe thats why.. i guess he just respects me a whole lot. but seriously guys don't have that much self control unless if they aren't attracted to the person. i'm really shy though and it was the first time we went to sleep together. and the next day i asked if he felt me up and he said no. but then i said i wish he would have and he said he did feel me up on my thighs some.

i just wanna see if yall think it's possible for a guy and girl to sleep together with the guy behaving.

2006-10-27 20:13:39 · 6 answers · asked by yo 2 in Singles & Dating

You fall head over heels in love with a woman, the relationship ends because her family dislikes you and you cannot help the way you feel for her. So how do get anything from the women you date now even though you still trully love the one who left? Can you honestly expect anything good from dating others when your heart still belongs to someone else?

2006-10-27 20:13:19 · 5 answers · asked by NoMaD! 6 in Singles & Dating

I don'k what to do.

2006-10-27 20:13:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It's obvious that he still likes me, and his friend also told me that he still likes me. I can't avoid him because we have classes together and we have the same group of friends. I also don't want to be too mean to him since I don't want him saying "she's such a b i t c h" about me to his friends, especially since I like one of his friends.

But he's so annoying. Help!

2006-10-27 20:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating