It's obvious that he still likes me, and his friend also told me that he still likes me. I can't avoid him because we have classes together and we have the same group of friends. I also don't want to be too mean to him since I don't want him saying "she's such a b i t c h" about me to his friends, especially since I like one of his friends.
But he's so annoying. Help!
2006-10-27 20:11:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok im in the same situation and it defintely sucks. you try to be friends with him just to be nice but cant stand him most of the time because all hes thinking about is getting back together. you need to let him know that there is no chance of you guys being together any time in the near future and if he wants to be able to be in your life at all (as friends) then he needs to back off a little. the whole liking his friend thing is rough. you might be overstepping some boundaries so it would pry really hurt your ex. if you really dont care then start talking to his friend and see what happens.at least it will show him that youre totally over him
2006-10-27 20:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by .......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you had enjoyed his company while you were together; but, it's over and you both need to move on in life. Tell him if that makes you into a ***** than so be it and it would only prove that he is very narrow minded to think that at your age's you should only experience life with only one individual. You should always have a friend with you not only to protect you but also to verify the facts if necessary. For that matter, have one of his friends and one or two of yours with you when the conversation takes place therefore there will be no misunderstandings. Don't be afraid of being a *****, I've been a A-- Hole since i was 16; forty years ago, and it never hurt me.
2006-10-27 20:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by denfasr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey !!
one thing whihc u cannot stop is someone frm liking u !!
just b normal with him !! dont b over concerned and all cos it may give him the wrong idea tat mayb he still stands a chance!!
but dont b mean !!
keep ur talks brief ! dont go out alonewith hime even if its a frnd hang out thing
make sure u meet him only in a group
hell get over u once hes sure tat there is no chance
tc bye
2006-10-27 20:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having a premonition -you are a vicky pollard stereotype- you will be pregnant before the age of sixteen, and a single mother soon after.
2006-10-27 20:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it comes down to it, grl you cant force him not to like you...he does have tender feelings towards you but you can ask him to not show it so much and for him to know his limits...two things liking from afar is ok ...just as long as he dont jump out of bushes when you go on dates... now thats stalkerish....say look i know we have a past but you need to curb it and please dont be too forward with your feelings...all you can do is tell him and if hes not accepting of that then you need to avoid him and if you are being labeled as a ***** or whatever then thats ok at least you got your peace...sometimes you like people and they dont like you back its normal but you dont go around ruining every chance for the person to move on....its hard and you will be uncivil at first but he & you will come to terms with it ...
2006-10-27 20:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how old they get they don't go away if your still talking to them. Ex. my ex-boyfriend was in his 50's everytime I talked to him I told him straight out we weren't getting back together and every time he would kiss me or ask me out again.
2006-10-27 20:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes ... I have the same problem right now.
So, I dun no the answer ...
Maybe start dating someone else? ... Or ... just act like friends? He'll get over it!
2006-10-27 20:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a beard, get a "girlfriend" tell every body he's responsible for the new you
2006-10-27 20:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend, make out with him and make sure your ex-boyfriend sees.
He will then have to force himself to get over you.
2006-10-27 20:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He apparentl isnt a real man. Something that he needs to learn how to be... Tell him this... In all sincerity.
2006-10-27 20:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by thaheartoflife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋