i have had this problem for a long time now. i broke up w/ mah ex like more than 2 years ago. i had been feeling bad cuz she got really hurt but i couldnt do anythin about it.i broke up w/ her cuz it was just not workin out well and other reasons. But i feel that even though i had reasons and all, it was still my fault cuz i promised her to be w/ her and stuff and i couldnt keep up w/ it. i explained her mah problems when i broke up w/ her but i guess she doesnt get it. she thinks i am one of those guys who just want to play and leave. after a long time i had said sorry to her and told her that i feel guilty and stuff and she goes like its k, dont worry about it. we r friends now and talk to each other but deep down she hates me for that. i wish i know i can do somethin to get ova that guilt that i got ....do u have any suggestions?
2006-10-27 20:29:47 · 18 answers · asked by kion l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Telling her you are sorry is all you can do. That should make you feel better. It's hard to know we hurt someone but we can't do anything about our actions in the past. We can only control what we do in the future. Just let it be a lesson in life.
~T~
2006-10-27 20:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Dude, but that's a little cross you have to bare - and the reason it hurts and stays with you is so that you don't forget and make the same mistake later. It is, in fact, a good thing you feel this, because it shows you actually care. If you didn't feel like this, you'd be a huge dick.
Give it some time, Bra, the feeling will eventually lessen, and perhaps the two of you will get past it.
Good Luck, Bra!
Aloha!!
2006-10-27 20:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you broke up for several reasons right ?...a break up is never easy for the person who wants to break up or the person that the person is breaking up with...if you really are having these guilt feelings maybe it means you still want a second chance or that you feel really bad for hurting her...sometimes you love a person for who they are but you cant be with that person no matter how much you love her or you try. It wont work..Maybe you need to stop torturing yourself and let it go...and if shes accepted it then maybe its your turn to accept it..i know its so easy said then to let go of the emotional baggage but at one point you need to let go...this is radical enough but discuss it with her...you need closure maybe thats why you feel that way...tell her the truth and how you feel. thats all i can suggest...i feel bad for stuff i did to exes in the past but you know what?...thats me killing myself over something i did years ago...you live and you learn good luck i hope you free yourself of this guilt....
2006-10-27 20:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing, but next time don't make such strong commitments when you are not sure about the relationship, I am sure after 2 years she has moved on, don't let it get you down. You already appologized for giving her the wrong impression, so let it go, if she is still your friends she must not think so badley of you. Don't be so hard on yourself.
2006-10-27 20:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you explained all the reasons you broke up with her and the pair of you are friends then there is nothing else you can do. She must understand or she wouldn't remain friends with you. If it is to do with trust or respect then that is something built over time
2006-10-27 20:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guilt feeling is bad, I agree. However, if you split with her for valid reasons, imagine how bad it would feel to be with someone you do not want to be with. Is like choosing the lesser of two evils.
All this I say assuming you do not want to date her anymore; but if you do want to be with her, then just get back together
2006-10-27 20:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you dont still have feelings for her??? I mean in a way that is more than friendship.....you feel guilty but after all this time you think you would get over the guilt....you must still love her
2006-10-27 20:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After hurting someone so deeply, how can you stick around in their life and pretend to be their friend? You need to sever all relationships and commincation with this girl. Stop seeing her, stop talking to her and yall both get on with your lives. Good Luck.
2006-10-27 20:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and get over it. If it didn't work it didn't work. What are you going to do? Stop feeling guilty and be glad you didn't stay with her when you were unhappy in the relationship.
2006-10-27 20:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mamma Muscles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋