i have this friend and we really seem to like each other, but she's engaged, and naturally she likes her fiance more. i know i should forget her, but it's hard when i like her so much.
then there's this other girl that is available and likes me, but i don't like her!!! i'm trying so hard to like her, because she's the only girl i can be with, but i just don't. why don't things ever just work out? once again, my only choice seems to be to remain single. people who meet "the one" don't know how lucky they are. i know because i dated the girl i wanted to be with for a while, and it was so incredibly great... until she dumped me and promptly met another guy. :(
2006-10-27 20:28:38 · 11 answers · asked by painfullyaverage 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you like hard to get. You have to accept the fact that the lady is taking and move on with the other one
2006-10-27 20:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are the sort of guy who loves the challenge and don't like getting things too easily because then you loose interest or you don't think that it is important enough. You would find that person I know but you have to also take your time. Breaking up your friend's engagement is not the answer. If you really feel the way that you do you would back off and find someone else to be with. When you said that the one for you dumped you, you should know that she isn't the one for you. That person that you would be madly in love with hasn't come along yet take your time and i think that you made the right choice by staying single because that would be the exact thing I would do. Good luck in finding that perfect and unique person for you.
2006-10-27 20:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if the girl who was engaged left her fiancee to be with you, you don't want her because what's to say she wouldn't leave you for someone else too? As far as the girl who likes her, leave her alone. Don't TRY to like her, because eventually you'll either be in an unhappy relationship or leave her. Settling isn't the thing to do, but instead, keep looking until you find the one that likes you and you like back.
2006-10-27 20:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean. It's like the people you like aren't available or don't like you back, and then the ones you are not interested in can't seem to understand you aren't into them in that way. It sucks, I really don't understand how someone can have a connection with someone and then the other person not feel the same way.......seriously....unrequited love is horrible!!!
2006-10-27 20:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With only two women to choose from, you don't seem to have much of a choice. Perhaps you need to expand your horizons and go outside your comfort zone to meet women you never thought of meeting before.
You can choose to stay single within your limited circle of friends. Or you can choose to expand that circle and keep expanding it until you find your true love.
Your choice is so limited because you choose to limit yourself.
2006-10-27 20:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being dumped by a girl you loved, you are now avoiding any commitment by liking girls you can't have or are unavailable.
2006-10-27 20:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you like the pretty girls, try not liking for once and go back and find the one, slowly, it will develop and you will slowly find her
don't forget to pray about that too
choose the one wisely, marriage is a calling.
good luck!
2006-10-27 20:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur a WHOOS pal thats the long and the short of it!!!!
2006-10-27 20:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want what you can't have...simple as that.
2006-10-27 20:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋