I was sober and wanted to drive, but he was getting kind of nasty and grabbed me by the neck and told me I was a *****.. He walked away and I left him in the parking lot. His friend dropped him off to pick up his vehicle (he left it at my house) and he wanted nothing more to do with me at that point. What's up? He said he didn't remember grabbing me like that..
2006-10-27 20:14:09 · 21 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send his butt home and keep him on hold for a few days. Let him think about it. I would email him or write a letter and let him know how terrible he made you feel. There is no use in talking to a drunk!
~T~
2006-10-27 20:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by ~*bUtteRFy~*~kISSeS*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his butt, but 1st tell him why. ( I have a brother that is an alcoholic) and he has ruined a lot of good ladies, because they don't wake up and leave him when he things every celebration needs to be a drink fest for him. If your boyfriend got abusive take heed, say you know so and so you are a great guy when you are sober, but guess what I will never be around you again when you are drinking, so either get help (because you can't hold your liquor, and you make a total jerk out of yourself when you drink). Another idea is to video him when he is drinking, he would be shocked at his own behavior. Good Luck =)
2006-10-28 03:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has a drinking problem and is abusive to you. Dump him and move on. You don't need to put your life at risk driving with someone like that or grabbing your throat. He's using alcohol as an excuse or he's drinking WAY too much. Just dump him and move on with life. Things will only get worse and you'll end up hurt.
A serious answer for once.
2006-10-28 03:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jeromy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't remember. Alcohol often makes people misbehave and then forget their misbehavior.
But next time he gets drunk, he may punch you out and put you in the hospital. And then he won't remember this either.
If you don't like the way he behaves when he is under the influence of alcohol, then you should leave him.
Only if he completely stops drinking alcohol and never ever drinks it again, then perhaps you could consider having a relationship with him again.
2006-10-28 03:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it would seem the best thing happened that could have,, he walked away before he really got violent,, , Bottom line,, hes an alcoholic he drinks till he cant remember what he does or who he does it to,, That is NOT a good situation for a female if shes wanting the picket fence relationship,, You would be wise to tell him to hit the road, and not to worry about coming back, In situation where there is violence, You cant take him back "just once more" what if that once more is what hes counting on, and then the Ambulance is on the way for you, Its not worth it unless he goes to counseling and you have to watch out for number one ---- Yourself, I wish you the best of luck in your decision and hope it works out for the best, all things considered,
2006-10-28 03:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drinking does things to people has he drank before or ever treated you like that? If so either get him into AA and anger management or get rid of him. There is no reason on this earth that you should be treated like that. No excuses at all. You are better than that.
2006-10-28 03:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by deb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... there are plenty of guys wh will treat you with the respect you deserve.
Do you think you deserve to be treated like the intellegent beautiful woman that you are? Now is the time when YOU CHOOSE how you want to be treated for the rest of your life ... do you choose abuse?
If he has done it once ... without treatment he will do it again. If he cant even remember it, its highly unlikely he will go for councelling
Dump him, move on with your life.
2006-10-28 03:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, the fact you cared enough to want to drive shows your ability to be both responsible and caring to someone you love...his reactions however, show he is not worth the time nor the effort...the old "gee I don't remember doing it"..shows both a cowardly nature and a poor drunk...one time touching you is one time to many....you need a MAN not a drunk and an ape who will put their hands on you...do not waste time wondering why he did what he did...use the time wisely to find someone who deserves someone as good as you!!!!!!!!!!whether it be a man or a woman doing the touching........the first time is always just the beginning......trade that **** in for the touches that feel oh to good ;}
good luck to ya.............
2006-10-28 03:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by Unitsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes an alcoholic...best to stay away from him. At least til hes over his problem (which would mean not getting drunk anymore). You dont want to be in love with an alky...ask anyone who has.
2006-10-28 03:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by Liberty against the NWO 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
(This is Thomas S's wife) On the spiritual tip, hun he was possesed that's why he doesn't remember it. I don't think he should be drinking if it can get him that f*ed up. If he is your BF only and you are not married...LEAVE HIM! NO MAN should be allowed to grab you like that. NO MAN!
2006-10-28 03:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋