Just been dumped.got on so well , no argumentsd, hes just pickled coz hes trying to sort his life out..........pushed me away and its hurting coz the problem wasnt us.came out of the blue coz id only been at hospital that afternoon and he was texting me, affectionately( as usual).this has hit me for six and he goes ito himself,rather than talk about his problems.an ex of his has recently begun talking to him again too. im really down in the dumps
2006-10-27 22:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by bmw.girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cheer up Hon, it happens and soon you will be feeling much better. He didn't sound too nice anyway
2006-10-27 22:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun dont get out down by him! Chin up! If his ex has been in touch then hes just probably confused. Just let him know that your ok and show him that you can get on with things without texting or phoning him. When he sees this he will probably think wow what am i doing! And you know what hun if he doesnt get in touch then you know your better off on your own - get out there have some fun and Mr right will come along when you least expect it. Good luck xx
2006-10-27 22:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all go through the same thing when we've been dumped - its just easier if you know the reason why.
Sounds like he wasn't as committed to you as you thought.... but don't let yourself get too down.
There will be someone out there who will treat you the way you deserve, who will open up complety and will let you help with all his problems.
Surround yourself with your friends and family.
2006-10-27 23:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with friends, family, start dating & do things you enjoy to get your mind off of him. In time what your feeling will pass.
The problem isn't you, he probably thought he still had feelings for his ex & that is what created the situation your in.
2006-10-27 22:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by skymastergolfpro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. I wish there was something i could say that would help. Its hell isn't it, my only advice is girlie friends! Call them up, get a bottle of wine in, fave DVD, plenty of tears! As for men.......who knows......!! All the best honey, hope you are ok soon, now call your mates up!!!
2006-10-27 22:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear your sad. why don't you call your friends and have a good night out. go shopping, lots of girly stuff that what me and my friend do when one off us is sad.
2006-10-27 22:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a drive
2006-10-27 22:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by dobbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋