The last question i answerd was about a girl who cheated on her husband an wanted to know what to do... Just about every answer from guys an girls was " dont tell him an learn from your mistakes" Guys and girls if your spouse cheated on you wouldnt you wanna know??? I mean i know everyone makes mistakes but do you really believe that hiding it will make things better? You dont think one deserves the truth???
2006-10-27 19:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by ohio_gurl042 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, everyone deserves to know the truth. If you don't confess the sin then it will come back to you in an unpleasant way. I find life is much easier to deal with if I tell the truth at all cost. That way I don't have to wonder which story I told to which person.
2006-10-27 20:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a matter of individual reasoning for each of us. Your values are your own, not ours. If you are compelled to confess, then fine for you and live with the fallout. However, may it be an even worse betrayal to not only have made the mistake, but then make the husband pay and suffer as well? This is an individual choice of comfort, values and belief, which we all decide is right for us. Let's not judge her, as if I were her husband, I'd really just rather not know and remain happy. Let it be. What is wrong us? Maybe a little weed will help you mellow, relax and enjoy?
2006-10-28 03:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by seattlego 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the husband thought he had a happy marriage and didn't have any idea the wife had cheated, and the wife was remorseful and wouldn't ever do it again, and truly loved her husband, what purpose would it serve to tell the husband? It would only serve to hurt him and destroy his world, just for the sake of the wife "getting it off her chest."
I don't think telling the truth would help in this case, only hurt. And that is what should be avoided. That sort of truth should NEVER be told. If my husband was cheating, I'd want to know. If he had cheated, felt bad about it, and never intended to do it again, I wouldn't ever want to know.
2006-10-28 03:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true the truth hurts but that's part of the consequences of your actions.You have to take responsibility.You know the consequence when you did it . you decided to do it now have the balls to tell the truth.cheating breaks hearts but lies drive them crazy trying to find the truth,and when they find out later,you have made a fool out of them for trusting you.And once you cheat the staying together,forgiving,divorcing is all out of your hands You can make someone feel so disgusted with them self for touching you when you might have cooties.You have no right to cheat and bring home someones germs without confessing and let them decide if they find you repulsive now.
2006-10-28 03:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think they do deserve to know the truth cause iv'e been in a situation like that and lieing and hiding the truth gets you no were...and yeah you will learn from your mistakes but you'll be loseing a lot more by hideing it i think....so tell your husband
2006-10-28 03:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by flaca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person served by her telling is her own conscience... the husband would be devastated. I came to this conclusion because there was no intercourse. NO good can come from her telling if she is truly remorseful. Her cross to bear.
2006-10-28 03:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no the truth hurts, he/she should just have the decency to check if he/she got aids from the sex.
2006-10-28 03:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by ROXYbeachbum 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it seems you havent learned anything yet
2006-10-28 03:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋