I have always wanted a boyfriend but then always turn down the guys that ask me from my school cause i just think of them as friends.Is it alright if i get a boyfriend over this and internet date him?
2006-10-27 19:53:46 · 12 answers · asked by dramahotty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you want to turn down the guys you know at your school? Especially to date someone online!? Online dating isn't really dating, it's like emailing back and forth. It is not a real relationship if you can't meet the person. And if you're friends with the guys that ask you, why can't you date them? You get along with them as friends, so you should be able to get along with at least one of them as a bf. There must be one of them you find attractive enough! Good night!
2006-10-27 20:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see that as much of a relationship. You'll have to meet him eventually, right? One of the fun things about dating is holding hands, and you can't do that over the computer.
I'm a little ho-hum about internet dating. Though internet dating is happening a lot, most of us still think its kind of silly, desperate and dangerous. I've seen it work for some people, and I've seen it as disastrous for others- but these people were well into adulthood and had real relationships prior that were not through the internet. I think internet dating is risky at any age, but if you are not yet 18, I would definitely be extra careful. If you are going to meet the guy for the first time, definitely bring a friend along.
If you are asking this question, I think in your heart you know its not much of a boyfriend since you are voicing doubts. One of the most exciting things about falling into a relationship is catching sight of your crush from a far, throwing smiles and looks in his direction...those silly little things that make a girl's hear flutter. Maybe you get those things too when talking to this 'dude'. But how? When you have never met him, seen him, or even heard his voice (i dunno...maybe you guys have video cams, and microphones)? How do you know his online "persona" is even the real him?
If all you are looking for is a "boyfriend"...a title or term to throw around and brag about at school...you have no intention of meeting up with him, and its all just a game...sure, fine, (a little desperate?) but its okay. But if you are looking for a 'first love', an actual relationship with someone...I beseech you to wait. And I would warn you, a boyfriend sometimes needs to be your best friend too. :)
2006-10-27 20:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by CloudRider9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no and NO!!!! Haven't you heard all the stuff out there about kids and internet???
PLEEEEZZZE, keep in mind that a person can be anyone they want you to think they are online. Like I told my son when he was young....."The cute, 14 year old hottie you're talking to online may in fact be a naked, fat, cigar smoking old perverted man".
Chat with people, fine...but NO, do NOT get a boyfriend online. Keep that for real life.
2006-10-27 19:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Amy N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 11:57:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just for fun, play a game - who knows where the truth love is.
But be careful - good luck in searching.
2006-10-27 19:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might not be a good idea... there are a lot of creepies out there... you could get involved in something you really dont want... i think its always better to know someone or be friends first ... just be careful
2006-10-27 20:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by .......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that will be fine but my advice is don't take it too seriously.
you may get hurt, who knows, in actual life he also has a GF.
to get to know a person through online is not easy.
time counts
2006-10-27 19:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by fresh fish 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats funny because im in the same situation. i say why not? just make sure yall talk enough and actually meet up someday instead of layin it off.
2006-10-27 19:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by thaheartoflife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure for some it is the best way, and much eaisier to start over without the memories of seeing them everyday in your regular life...so what do you look like....
2006-10-27 20:00:39 · answer #9 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no! that's a bad idea!
A boyfriend should be some1 who u really know.u can have many friends here but not a bf!
2006-10-27 19:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋