My live in boyfriend and I have been going together for a year and a half. About four months into the relationship he started accusing me of cheating on him. I love him so much I havn't as so much touched another guy since I have been with him. He says he will never trust me. He verbally abuses everyday and tells me to get out of his life. What is my other option other than moving out. im scared Iam only 19 Iam really scared!
2006-10-27 20:01:19 · 4 answers · asked by Kristy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kriss, he is cheating on you and he feels guilty, that is why he is blaming you....so start looking for another place to live, before he gets physical.....and for you next guy, make sure he is older than you, at least 10 years, then he will treat you as you should be...and won't care only about himself, as most guys do until at least 30./////if you need a place let me know, I will be able to help you out...
2006-10-27 20:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could stay with him allow him to verbally abuse you and eventually physically abuse you. Or you could leave and find someone who will care for you and love you and want to make you happy. You can't change him, you can't "convince" him you're not cheating. He's insecure and has trust issues with women. All the "love" and understanding you try to give him isn't going to change him. People can only change themselves if they want to! You're too young to have to experience this get out now.
2006-10-28 03:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep the relationship, he has to change. Let him know how much this hurts you, because he might just be saying that stuff because of his own insecurities. If you are willing to help him through that, and he is willing to change, it can be done.
But if he won't change or admit to whats really bothering him, you have to stand on your own two feet and walk out.
2006-10-28 03:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww.. get rid of this loser. cheaters often accuse their partners of cheating. what does that tell you? he could be cheating. he sounds very insecure. definitely move out.... maybe you could get back together, A LONG TIME FROM NOW. break up with him for now. he will go completely insane, but don't go back to him. then you'll see if you like being single better.
2006-10-28 03:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by painfullyaverage 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋