I have know a guy for almost half year.he is my colleague actually.before knowing him,i feel he quite cool.after knowing him and together working for a while,i have a crush on him. the moment with him really happy. i did give him hints that i have interest on him and he also realising it.however,he have girl friend already.however i do not mind just be friend.during this time we used to sms each other .one day,i consider to resign and he promise me to appear on that day,however he did not.i feel so sad till i cried on the way home.he sms me one day and say he oversleep.i feel so disappointed.during the moment with him,i used to help him financially whenever he ask me.but i never regret eventhough i know he might he using me.we continue keep in touch till one day he told me to stop sms him for a period till he contact me.however,i cant stop missing him so i called him and i realise he the one pick up.this shows that he never think to contact me even he got his hp.what should i do?
2006-10-27 19:51:52 · 6 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DON'T.
If I were you, I would just move on and find somebody more deserving of my attention and love. You are a special girl. Don't settle for anyone who doesn't treat you that way.
I have been in that same situation, also initiating communication with a certain guy and later on realize I don't have to come running after him. There are many fishes in the sea. I will get over him. say that to yourself too.I know you will be able to get over him.
Good luck.
2006-10-27 19:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, huh? most of that is a mess on unintelligable-ness. so bad, i am forced to make up words for it. but anyway, yeah, he's using you. i've heard my guy friends tell girls, don't call me i'll call you. it's a total blow off. forget about him, and above all do not give him any more money.
2006-10-28 02:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by raven_roycroft 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your heart wants to just find 'love' and in your mind he seems like your only option - but he's not. If you think he's using you, don't call him back. I think your heart is lonely and wants to explore 'love'. Find a person worth sharing it with.
2006-10-28 02:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
....learn from the bitterness of the experience.
2006-10-28 02:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should contact him back and talk to him....
just tell him tat you miss him very much...
2006-10-28 02:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by yiyi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4get it! he's sick!
2006-10-28 02:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋