2006-10-27 23:20:06 · 16 answers · asked by Bandice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when a woman has a man who menatally abuses them its because they have no self-esteem or self love and the man makes them feel less than, so they put up with it, feeling that its love,and they know no other way.
2006-10-28 00:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by amy j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying that you only want what you cant have. Women have this thing about wanting to "tame the wild beast". If they can get a bad guy to change and become sweet to them and them only and no other woman has ever been able to then somehow it will make her feel special and more important and so on. It is really stupid when you think about it. Men do the same. They always want the girls that dont want them.
I went through a long bout of this insanity until i finally got a clue and got tired of being treated bad. I am now with a good guy and better off for it. Never be with someone you want to change. That was the hardest lesson for me and most people that i know of.
2006-10-27 23:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mary N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all women do not fall for a man that mentally abuse them. The men are ok until they know they have fallen for them...THEN they take control and tell the woman negative things and lead her to believe she is the person who is wrong. The woman stays because of the children, because they don't love themselves or because they don't have a way out.
2006-10-27 23:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This problem could stem from abuse at home, which is the only thing a person knows in their life. That creates an unhealthy relationship with a man who is abusive. Self esteme is one factor leading a person to this. Another is when your mother intervienes in a good relationship and screws it up for you. You act in rebellion and get in with a bad man. If the woman is lucky, after all the abuse, she will find a good man.
2006-10-27 23:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by hazeleyedbeauty1967 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because there's something that keeps drawing them towards guys like these....these guys can come across as the most charming at first....and this kind of living basically becomes the norm for these women, while they hold on for dear life hoping that this guy will change some day, it seems they become stuck in a rut they find hard to get out of.
2006-10-27 23:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because it turns into psychological, the adult men some how warp the womans mind into making her stay or bodily threaten her or her kinfolk if she leaves. There are extremely fairly some motives. also because they are going to also struggle through what's termed the honeymoon section the position the guy will say i'm sorry and purchase her issues and promise to by no skill do it back and then he starts the entire cycle once better.
2016-10-16 06:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by swailes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because goodhearted and nice guy usually bore a lady as they're too nice & obedient. women always like playful, cheeky & humorous type of guys as they bring excitement for them. it's actually because girls are cheap. same thing goes for the guys, they also like girls who are bitchy, vain & pretty rather than those who are plain, simple minded, goodhearted and normal looking types. humans are mainly cheap animals.
2006-10-27 23:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys just don't change into monsters overnight. Most put up a good front until the girl relaxes her guard. Then when he has nothing else to prove--since he's "won" her over, he starts acting like his "true" self---possessive, controlling, extremely jealous, etc.
As a guy, I've never done that, and I'm defending most other guys actions, either..
2006-10-27 23:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by rrticulate1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've often wondered that. theres a saying which goes ''treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen'' women just seem to love b-a-s-t-a-r-d-s!...tho' I'm not one of them.I'm a 'nice guy' and have been cheated on 3 times! but thats all in the past. I'm now in 8 years relashionship and everthing is cool so maybe you should just shop around!
2006-10-27 23:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Ivan R Don 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the jerks are more adventurous to be with sometimes and the nice guys aren't a challenge. It's the same reason a nice guy ends up with a slut.
2006-10-27 23:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋