for those of u who know the story please respond i need your help ? i have been through alot trying to support my gf and my little baby girl and its been hard. i think she isnt really happy with me but yet using me till she finds something else. She will miss me changing diapers and buying her weed and breaking my back to pay for things while she sits at home and plays online. I think she needs a real world wake up call. But i really love her , should I be understanding she is only 22 and hope for the best or find someone who wont play games, shouldi getin my van and driveto ontario now and dont look back ????????
2006-10-27 22:50:14 · 4 answers · asked by Candy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude this chick sounds like she's going to ruin your life I'd leave now then find a way to get custody of your girl. but why go to Onterio? how about getting a hotel in Calgary or something for a few days give her a call then see how she acts. if all she wants to be is a freeloader then tell her to kiss off. or perhaps a wake up call is just what is needed. if she don't show 75% interest in the relationship then you are waisting your time and your life. perhaps a few days apart will make a world of difference.
but what ever you do. do not give her an ultimatum. that will ruin any chances of you getting this worked out. girls will take the option over you. they have something that all straight men want and they will use it to find someone else very quickly.
2006-10-27 22:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by ninhalo1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are hard at any age, especially when there are children involved. Sit down talk to her, let her know how your feeling and what the alternatives are that you are intending on doing. But please do not abandoned your child as she is the most important one here. I have one other suggestion and maybe counseling will help.At least there will be an objective person to help out with some answers and possible solutions. Good luck, it sounds like your a great dad, don't ever stop being that no matter where the relationship goes
2006-10-28 06:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by dreamgirl_deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her an ultimatum of what you are going to do then stick to it or else you will be driving your self crazy instead of driving to Ontario.
2006-10-28 05:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by jackiedj8952 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, if you are still thinking just act.
Do what you feel is right.
Beause you yourself know that you have already made up your mind and won't do it.
You still love her and the baby.
2006-10-28 05:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋