Whould u feel jealous if ur bf went to the other city for the weekend to meet his female friend? My bf just did it, he knew this girl for more than a year but never met her. inicially i was supposed to go with him but then he asked me if he could go byhimself for the 1st time. I know i can trust him but i don't know if i can trust this girl... sitting at home, being angry....
2006-10-27 23:23:28 · 13 answers · asked by frida 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its ok to feel a little hurt. but if you really trust him, then get over it. jealousy is a waste of time and energy. save it up and when he gets home release it in a more positive way. show him how much you missed him. as a matter of fact, mine went to Denver to a concert last nite. and stayed over. iam babysitting his dog, while he is out having a good time. but when he gets back i know our quiet time together will be spent making love rather than arguing.
2006-10-28 00:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what your thinking to try to ease your anger. You can't and you have a major problem here. How in the hell does a guy know a girl for more than a year and not meet her. Unless it is a job related issue I understand then. But the for real is they met somehow. Maybe not in person but they met and have been communicating. Also they planned this trip for a while. Here's another thing, why is he communicating with another women with the intent on meeting her? This is all bad. If I were you I would dump him. ASAP. You don't need the drama.
2006-10-28 06:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be furious, why trust him ,being a male myself that's totally taking you for granted.
One has to ask the question WHY?
Obviously he must not think much of you,one wonders what would HE think if YOU went to spend a weekend away with a male friend you had kept in touch.
Sorry but I would feel like kicking him to the kerb, he is having you on. He is prob having the time of his life be hopes he is wearing protection.....
You have big decision to make,well I think so anyway...((Hugs))
2006-10-28 06:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Whoops 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to worry about trusting her if you trust him. He's not a puppy that will be wooed away by a few ounces of raw hamburger meat.
Besides, there's a whole world full of women out there that he is going to meet and not be interested in like that. You can't go crazy thinking about all of them.
2006-10-28 06:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by Gina G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have brought you with him. if it is a platonic friendship then your bf should also introduce you to her so as to give the girl a "signal" that he is in a relationship especially that it is the first time to meet her. Your bf shouldn't let you worry like this. You beleive him is right but how about the girl. Nowadays, some women like to tempt men who have gf. I would feel bad to my bf if it happened to me but so far, my bf always take me when he meets people.
2006-10-28 06:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's difficult not to feel jealous...and to some extent to get jealous..
but i guess you cannot do much about it.. but i donot think he also will be comfortable and ok with it if you go out and meet your male friend alone in the weekend..
try not to think too much about it. it will make you angry and you'll get weird ideas sitting at home alone.. you too go out and have fun with your other friends...
You should also trust him and give him his space, if anything goes wrong in future( i hope nothing will ) .. you can work it out am sure..
2006-10-28 06:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not exactly jeolousy but a strange kind of feeling, just a feeling watz the need, i can undestand it, hmmm, trust him competely i wud suggest that, if there was something wrong, u gonna sense it and he cudnt hide too, keep ur thoughts for later, right now dont b angry, just keep urself bz, think of all the nice moments u spent togather, and most imp i repeat TRUST HIM
2006-10-28 06:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can truly trust himn then what are you worrying about...even iof you cant trust her then you can still trust him to stop anything cxant you?!?!
if it was me i would have those thougfhts in my head, but i sont think i would worry about it so much....hes meeting a freind who he hasnt before, try not to put too much thought into it! id wanna go by myself too it was a fist time meeting! dont worry hun!
2006-10-28 06:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's natural to be jealous, but whatever you do for God's sake don't over-react and do or say something stupid, because that's what most girls would do. Which is no good.
2006-10-28 06:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't have went if I couldn't go. I know your angry but I have to tell you he is on some other stuff if he didn't want you to go. Remember it takes two to tango
2006-10-28 06:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋