see we've been together for 2 and a half years.i love him so much.but see he's never been the type of boy that calls alot.so i really don't know.i mean his phone is disconnected and he doesn't have a cell phone.so i don't know.what should i do?we only see each other once a week.cuz he has no car and he has football practice everyday till 6.i mean i've asked everybody that knows him if he is cheating and they all say no.i've smelled his bed and it's this girl at his school.she loves to tell stuff.so i ask her all the time if he's doin something and she says no.i even ask people if he is ever with a girl and they all say no.everybody tells me no.i don't know what to do.what should i do?
2006-10-27 23:54:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey I see you need some help! Well let me keep it real with you for a second, STOP ASKING EVERYBODY ELSE BUT YO MAN ABOUT WHAT HE'S DOING.!And you know that when the school's newspaper (the gossip girl) tell you he's not cheating, he's not cheating. I do think though it was a little extreme to go and smell his bed because there's something called Febreze and Washermachine. Plus this boy is a football practice all day long, he has no car, no phone please do the math. So basicly I trust your man or he's going to leave you if you keep acting insecure and jealous. HE'S NOT CHEATING ON YOU! So just give upon TRYING to make him cheat on you and put some TRUST into the relationship!
2006-10-28 01:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by ADVICEGURL101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no he ain't cheating. If you ask the girl at school that likes to get drama started and she said no, then you know he isn't. The drama starter knows everything. Plus, when does he have the time? It sounds like you're on verge of being crazy and you might end up running dude off because you keep harassing him about it. If you're that worried, feel free to buy him a cell phone. He won't mind. What GameGiver is going to put out there is that most of the time you accuse someone else of something, you've been thinking about doing that something. Doesn't sound like he's changed in those 2 and a half years (except be a little broker). But have you? You can not fool GameGiver!
2006-10-28 00:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by GameGiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what made you feel that your bf is cheating on you. In any relationship, the basic thing the couples need to have is trust. if you can't trust your bf, I think the relationship won't last long no matter how deep is your love towards your bf.
I believe there must be something that made you have this phobia. You need to have confidence in yourself and the relationship afterall both of you have been together for 2 and half years and is not a short time.
2006-10-28 01:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he suddenly has things to do that he never had to do before...when he avoids your calls, or isn't there to take them, if his attitude toward you is changing, if he tells you he "just needs some ME time" If you live together some of these are signs too... 1. Lower desire to be with you sexually. 2. Suddenly tries new sexual positions. 3. Working late more often. 4. Mysterious phone calls. 5. Gets angry when you look at the cell phone, pager, or computer. Is secretive of such. 6. Smell of perfume on their clothing. 7. Takes a shower as soon as he comes home. 8. You find hairs or other objects on his body or in his possessions. 9. Starts taking more care with his appearance. 10. Accuses you of cheating. 11. He changes his normal routine without cause or reason.
2016-03-19 00:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and ask him if he is cheating or not, don't confront him in an aggressive way, ask him in a way that the two of you won't start a fight, ask him at the right time. And don't go asking people if he's cheating or not. And also if ever he finds out that you're asking people if he is cheating, he might think you don't trust him, so be careful. .
2006-10-28 01:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't ask me.so he doesn't have a phone does he live with his parents then it's not his fault but girlfriend your smellin' his bed that sounds like cause for dismissal to me. why don't you chill and let love take its course or do you have to mess it up being overly obsessive.when he gets enough of you asking all his friends, and he will, and you have to start a new relationship and if the same thing happens, seek help.
2006-10-28 00:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a real problem Honey and, your ,making it worse with your worrying.
Really, smelling his bed, are you that good? Get a life and start enjoying yourself. If you think he's this bad you'd better find another person you can trust.
2006-10-28 00:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone says no why are you still worrying about it. If he has football practice every day he's tired and probably has to do his homework afterwards and then goes to bed. See if you hear from him more when football season is over before you worry about it
2006-10-28 00:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by kadel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if sumbody was to tell you he was cheating well you leave him
if so it makes you ah damn fool gurl stop worrying yourself if he is he gone slip trust he gone slip
you say you love yo man have trust stick by his side hell his phone turn off he probally having finacial problems talk to him asking him whats going on
2006-10-28 00:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont rely on him ,i would say he is trying to avoid you.
Generally, boys have tendancy to get bored of their girlfriends after certain period. He must have used you for his physical fullfillments.
so just forget him and catch a new guy
2006-10-28 00:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by pappy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋