i have chatting friend ,i meet him first chat,he take cate me a lot, if i chat with others he very angry on me & tell u like only them not me ,he always tell me I like U,I want wife like u,he told that when u want to chat then u just misscall me we chat,he is so busy untill he chat me simultaniously doing work,somtimes he is very possesive abt me.i feel that he love me becz when he type anything i relize his emotions,but we r from good family anyone don't want to move first,becz i always tell him we r only good friends it is not possible any marrige relation betn us then he told forget abt possibilities,i want ans,so i am so confuse what i do? i nees suggestion?whether i leave him? or continue our friendship relation.
2006-10-27 23:36:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well i must say i had a difficult time undestanding ur english, secondly i dont undestand watz holding u bak, if he loves u u do too, then watz the proble, why dont u too, mett up and decide wat to do next, r u scard of family objections or wat???????? c if u think u reeaaly like this guy and can face ur family for him and tell him this is the guy u want to marry, continue, otherwise move on
2006-10-27 23:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a group date or a picnic with some of your friends where he can come too. Have you met him before? I have known people who have decided that they love each other and want to marry each other even before they have seen each other's faces. He can be a stalker. Go and read some cyber crime stories if you don't believe me. If you have feelings for him, hire a detective (without telling him, of course) and get his past and present record and make sure that he is not some cheat trying to lure you with his good communication skills. Once he gets cleared of that account, you can go ahead with your love story. By that time, tell him that you are going to talk to your familoy about him and it may take a month to round everybody up and you can do anything until they agree. If he gets cleared, do tell your family and inform them what you are going to do, before moving with him. Do keep in touch with the family and friends and be frank with them, so they know where and with whom you are at all times, at least in the beginning. Please be in touch. I don't want to cite cases but there are some, which makes me skeptic of chat relationships. I do not say to avoid them altogether but at least investigate someone well before committing yourself to anybody.
2006-10-28 00:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be very frank, if you think that there is no possibility of getting married between u both then you should not go ahead and carry on this relationship. Bcoz if u go ahead and say yes and then you dont get married then he will be like why did u say yes... and stuff like that so I strongly suggest you should not carry on with this. Yes he will be hurt his heart will get shattereed into pieces but thats life and time is the greatest healer, he will over come this .... this is for the benefit of you both only.....
god bless
2006-10-27 23:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by ghalwasiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fooling yourself>>> how would you believe such a man whom you'll never been meet in person? would you thrust him even though you never meet?
Suppose he is crazy and insane drug dependent addict guy and making you believe that he is "mr right guy" for you, are you still believe him?
In your question, you mentioned that he is possessive guy, right? so, therefore, his true personality is dangerous. He does not deserved to be loved and love. You are making a trapp for you to become his slave. He is a great impostor fooling you in the web. He is there at web only to have you as funny thing or like a sex toy for him to feed his sexual desires..
2006-10-28 00:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
undesirable guy, i think of he needs to locate somebody that appreciates him for him, no longer by way of fact he may be quite large. you may interrupt it off by way of fact this might continually worry you and while in public i'm prepared to declare which you in all risk sense embarassed to coach affection. flow locate your Mr. perfect make particular he has that coastline physique, and in step with risk on the comparable time he would be off cheating and not being concerned approximately your emotions. the way a individual seems has no longer something to do with loving somebody, you gotta love the soul. maximum suitable needs to your guy, desire he famous somebody that respects him by way of fact the guy he's...
2016-10-16 12:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duhh!! u said all that and ur askin to leave him ??don't act like a kid now !! if ur sure that u both love each other don't leave him .. just keep a good relationship
2006-10-27 23:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by dodi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have good points..based on his being possessive..don't trust him until you meet him..
2006-10-28 01:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Learn to speak/write english
2) Talk to him...
2006-10-27 23:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Software_pro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though i couldnt really understand what u were saying i reckon that u should leave him
2006-10-27 23:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by :..: 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is just really complicated
2006-10-27 23:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by zazoon33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋