I said goodbye and he still wanted to fight so I told him I don't love him anymore and today he sent me an IM...why he is 15 doesn't I don't love you anymore mean its over..why is he so selfish?
2006-10-27 23:26:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show him it's over. Start dating other people
2006-10-27 23:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys sometimes take the words it is over as a thought that maybe tahy can fix something and have you back in your life! his guy is only 15 for crying out loud! make it loud and clear that you two are done!if that means not picking up the cell when he calls or erasing his number so be it! guys still thaink that when the girl calls it quits somehwhere there has to be another chance of him winning you ! that is what my bf did when i broke up with him! he chased me and took me to the movies and so forth but in the end my bf and i are 22-me and my bf is almost 24 and we got back together! just ignore him!
2006-10-28 06:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first have to understand that although you feel the relationship is over and you no longer have feelings for the other person that the other person may NOT feel as you do. Sometimes it's hard to grasp the truth that someone we love may not love us back. It's gonna take your ex some time to come to grips with that. That is still NO reason to argue with you. Maybe he thinks that he can guilt you into being a relationship with him. Obviously that is denial. Just remain compassionate and firm. Just try not to have much contact with him! Good Luck!
2006-10-28 06:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's selfish because he's 15. Just keep shutting the door on him and eventually he'll go away. Then he'll either grow up or he won't - but you don't need to tear yourself up over it.
In fact, good for you for saying it out loud like that! He should be happy he got the truth up front.
2006-10-28 06:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Gina G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe just because he can't understand why yesterday u told him that u love him and now u don't and in my opinion i think u should go and talk with him and tell the truth how your feelings changes and u can't be with him anymore because that would be cheating your own feelings.........well men are like kids as loud as u tell them not to do a thing they will always do it over and over again.
2006-10-28 07:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by black_cat_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't love him anymore quit worrying about him. Ignore him.
2006-10-28 06:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? You don't love him anymore.
2006-10-28 06:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you brag on us that a man is chasing you and you do not want him.
2006-10-28 06:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Chichou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the last sentence and please tell people what the F*CK that is meant to mean
2006-10-28 06:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it happens at this age?
sorry.
2006-10-28 06:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋