this is for all the ladys out there!
i like this girl but she might not like me and i want to know if i should make my move! my only question is what if we have sex and then she dumps me, its happend to me befor and i hated it.
she would get layed and dump me the next week i mean the sex is good but i want luv
2006-10-27 23:45:00 · 7 answers · asked by ben b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a good friend once told me that insanity is when one keeps doing the same thing expecting different results. are you insane do you really want love, then why don't you stop having sex and start having relationship. I know it's hard to pass up a **** with her legs open for the taking, but if love is what your looking for, even though the pus** looks inviting, you know love is not there. look somewhere else. define what it is that your looking for, study it and then look for it, and stop dipping:)
2006-10-27 23:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with her. Spend time with her getting to know her and then you can have the choice of remaining with or "dumping." Plus let's hope you did not pick someone to like who is just like everyone else you liked. Good luck. No need for angst.
2006-10-28 06:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about sex for awhile and develop a relationship with respect for each other. If she doesn't want to do this then your luv hopes are probably better not invested in her.
2006-10-28 06:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try 30 days of a relationship without sex...
i guarantee it will be FAR better than giving in the every little impulse.
2006-10-29 22:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,i thought guys like you disappeared from earth!make ur move, get to know her better and tell her you want a real relationship and not just sex. if she dumps you, she's not worth it then.
2006-10-28 06:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by Stella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE AND SEX HAVE LITTLE TO DO WITH ANYTHING..YOU CAN HAVE SEX WITH ANYONE YOU DO OR DON'T LOVE..........WAIT until the 6th date....take her out and be who you really are...be yourself..don't act how you think she wants you to act..too many people do that.........
2006-10-28 06:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you both rushed into sex
2006-10-28 06:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by s a 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋