So there's this guy that I've been talking to from work (he works out of another office) and I thought he was really in to me. He always acts all nervous when he's around me or talks to me on the phone and I can tell he thinks i'm attractive. He says things sometimes that are definitely alluding to being more than friends, but then he'll go AWOL for a bit. Finally last week he asked me to get together on Friday night after I got done with work which i confirmed with him Friday afternoon. He seemed really excited to see me and said he would call me when he was ready to meet up. Well it gets to be about 7 and I decided to call him and see what was up. He said he was still working but would call me back in a few minutes. He never did. I'm so pissed at him, why did he do this? Why go to all the trouble to ask me out and act all excited, only to bail? Is he just scared or did he just not really want to go out with me? I have NEVER been stood up by anyone, much less a guy so i'm dumbfounded
2006-10-28 17:30:31 · 14 answers · asked by foxyl83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As difficult as it WILL be, you need to walk away. Making yourself vulnerable to him and coming off as needy is really not the way to get someone back. If he doesn't love you, nothing you say will change that. I would let him be and go on with your life. Even if you never forget him, it's best to let him go.
2006-10-28 17:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with answer number one . He is married . But likes to play the conquest game . I see this nice looking girl . Can I still get nice looking girl . I'm stuck with the one I married . But do I still have the ol come heather . So he starts the flirting . The I am interested conversations . Then when he gets you to go out with him he backs out . Game Over .
2006-10-29 00:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well foxy i will tell you this he either got really busy at work and felt that if he called you to cancel that you would have been devastated or he just did not have the balls to follow through on his obligation to taking you out and about you never being stood up don't freight it happens to us at least one time in our lives don't worry your head to much about it theirs to many fish girl in the see but if you really like him then you call him and find out what happened if the first time you call him and you get voice mail then leave him a voice mail asking him if hes OK and see if he calls you back do not call him until he calls you back trust me ! if he did not mean to stand you up then hell call you and apologize and make it up to you if he does not call you maybe hes just a jerk but I'm sure that you ll be just fine well this is mommy s advice good luck to you foxy!
2006-10-29 00:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by my hubby and i at company party 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be scared, but that is still no excuse. Did you call him and ask him the reason? Giving him the benefit of the doubt, something could have happened. (Although a phone call would have been nice) I am interested to see what his excuse is.
2006-10-29 00:35:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. We can't tell you what is goin on in his head. I doubt its that he didn't want to go. Logical possibilities are A) He chickened out B) He get held late at work and felt to bad to call you back later C) Your his back up date and his real date said yes (I would bet on A)
2006-10-29 00:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by nekoolzec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a sticky situation b/c his boss could of told him that he had to stay or he was going to lose his job or he could of really wanted to go out with you but he thought it would be to fast so he got scared and canceled. all you got to do is ask him about it face to face not on the phone so you can look in his eyes and see if he is a liar or not.Good luck
2006-10-29 00:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something came up.
Maybe he has a girlfriend?
Perhaps he had other obligations that he couldn't explain very well to you?
Just ignore him the next time you see him. Don't talk to him anymore. See what happens when he gets the cold shoulder.
2006-10-29 00:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. How can any one of us on the interenet know what is going on in his head.
It would certainly save you a bunch of time by asking him, and you would be able to sleep at night. And at this point, you have absolutely nothing to lose by asking. There is not relationship there to worry about.
2006-10-29 00:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by huckleberry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People inevitably hurt other people. Try to understand he might be introverted, he could feel intimidated by you or any such matter. Call him and ask him, in the shallowest explanation, he could have just forgotten.
2006-10-29 00:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be married. Sounds stupid, but that's the first thing that came to mind, and I was nodding my head the whole time reading through.
2006-10-29 00:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by bloodsanctum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋