Ok... This is dramatic and stupid, but I need help. Two choices of boys; Boy one is sweet and creative and I've fallen in and out of love with him for the last three years. He seems perfect in every way, but he has this ability to break my heart every so often. He talkes about other guys all the time, not that he's serious about them, but still. He says he loves me, but he won't officially date me. Boy two is georgous, older than I am, and treats me right, I don't love him yet, but there's a definate possibility. He's soo amazing, but, he has a husband already. They're in an open relationship, but it's still awkward. We have had so many touching moments already... I just don't know what to do... any advice would be welcome! And please, don't rain Hellfire down on me about being gay. I understand not everyone agrees with it, and believe me if I could choose I'd be straight, but lord knows I'm workin' with what I've been delt... Thanks all for reading...
2006-10-28 17:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by Chipper 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NEITHER!
and not because you are gay.
boy #1- he causes you to feel insecure by talking about other guys. he doesnt want to commit, which means he's not that into you or isnt ready to settle for one man yet. and who needs that crap?
boy #2- you dont love him. and he is already in a serious relationship, whether it is an "open" one or not.
my advice is lose them both and keep searching for the one that will love you and only you, and who isnt afraid of commitment!
2006-10-28 17:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by melinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither! One has had his chance more than once, your someone, not something whenever he feels like "playing". The guy who already has the husband, is supposed to be taken, right? Well if he's taken, and given his "other" a commitment, why would he be having "touching moments" with you? So, you do realize if you were his "other", he would be out having "touching moment" with someone else! You don't want that do ya? So, save your heart a big crash down, and find someone who deserve you! Good luck! Hey, to each their own!!
2006-10-29 00:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to rain on your parade....but i say take neither.....
you go for guy 1 and he will hurt you again as he has in the past....guy 2 on the other hand is married and you will only be his bit on the side (his in an open marriage afterall)
so i say move on and find guy no 3.....someone who will treat you well, stimulate you mentally and love you for who and what you are.....
2006-10-29 00:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE ONE TO THE RIGHT
2006-10-29 00:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the solve is in your mind, thnk yourself and then decide
2006-10-29 00:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Rim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i recomend u to choise num ???.i want to choise with urself.
2006-10-29 00:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by nour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD SAY NUMBER TWO HE SOUNDS BETTER
2006-10-29 00:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by babii nekee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋