Okay...So there's this guy i REALLY like a lot, but he's friends with girls on my soccer team who are upper classmen, and they scare me because they are so much older and I think they are going to think bad of me...So I need help on how to talk to him without them having to know...I need help and FAST! Oh, and he knows who I am by the way and he wants to know more...I think...JUST HELP MEEEEEE!!!
2006-10-28 17:28:31 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go slow. 1-say hi while walking past. 2-stop and say hi, introduce yourself (sort of since he already knows who you are).
3- talk about something that he likes. good luck.
2006-10-28 17:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by walks with goats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I've actually been in a similar situation. When I was an adorable freshman, I LOVED senior guys, and upper classmen girls, especially soccer players would look down on me. Would I still try to be friends with all the senior guys if I could do it again? Of course I would, the experience was worth it. (Nothing happened with any of them other than hanging out with them during school but still) So anyways, I got HUGE crushes on senior guys and I would be all over them, hugging and stuff, and I was looked down on a bit I admit. But if you embarrass yourself enough you learn to not care what others think. And while no upper classmen girls thought good things about me, they all graduated, the guys too. So in the end it doesn't matter too much, live on your heart and your instinct, talk to him whenever you want!!!
2006-10-29 00:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would these girls think bad of you? And who cares what they think anyways; you like the guy, they're not the ones you're trying to impress. Don't let the fact that they're older intimidate you. Talk to him when they are not around because chances are they are not with him 24/7.
2006-10-29 00:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by zesty4pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay! Give us the guy's number and we will call him. We will tell him - "there's a girl who is dumb and cannot speak. But she has made us understand that she likes u. So if you have any sympathy for her please walk up to her and speak to her. But remember you will have to use sign language cause she can't talk."
2006-10-29 00:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rajat B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋