we have been dating for the past eight months and in the beginning, we used to make great love every day but ever since three months ago, my boyfriend has been complaining about tiredness and we have reduced our love-making sessions to probably once a week. i have never enjoy making love that much before but ever since i was with him, i crave that intimate moment with him. he works seven days a week and we only meet in the evenings for dinner and we would then go straight home after that. in the beginning, we have more enjoyable times as we usually stay till the wee hours of the morning before bidding each other good-bye. these kinda rscenes were no longer in existent as he is too lethargic or tired to keep me company that late. we have been arguing over this issue (making love) recently as i was trying to communicate to him my needs as i feel that he has ignored them. he blamed me for not being understanding and i have thought of giving up on us but i just can't becoz' i luv him ...
2006-10-28 17:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by alluring1314 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Honey. It has been eight months. The boy is tired. The more you argue with him about it, the less likely you will get loving worth having. Just like us, men don't like to feel pressured about sex. It turns them off as much as us. Try holding back a litte and wait for him to come looking. Sometimes with guys you need to give them a little space. Then they turn around and wonder why you are not there. Makes them want you more and wooo you back to their affections. I wouldn't worry about it. It sounds like your relationship may just be growing up. That intimacy when you do make love is way better than just doing it all night after dinner.
2006-10-28 17:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sleepless in Seattle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the begining everything is great and wonderfull and then things slowly fall on its place and everything bcomes boring and same old-same-old, but hey its only been 8 months and hes already turning down the love making?How do you think is gonna be in 2-3 yrs?Sex once a month maybe?And just one curiosity:HE WORKS 7 DAYS WEEK RIGHT?WAS HE AT THIS CURRENT WORK WHEN YOU U2 MET ONE ANOTHER?
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2006-10-28 17:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is burning his self out..it is going to hurt him in the long run...
He needs rest and some good sleep or that boy will die in a accident at work or on the road home or to work...I was like that once.If you really love him let him get some sleep...You need to think of his needs to..my wife was like you once to...and she regrets it to.....the way she acted...
2006-10-28 17:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-29 12:33:46 · answer #4 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he works 7 days a week... i see his point...
2006-10-28 17:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋