i am a 19 year old sophomore in college.....im cute , handsome and im a virgin which i dont regret at all bcoz i think my virginity is the best gift i can give to my wife.....now the thing is that i came through a profile of a girl on facebook who is very much like me.....god fearing and believes in celibacy.....im interested in her as she might be my soulmate but i dont have any experience with this dating thing so i dont know how to approach her.........i dont even have any common friends with her so this task seems quite difficult.......girls plz help as i dont wanna loose her......
2006-10-28 18:37:06 · 13 answers · asked by J D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for those who dont know facebook is an online networking community...mostly for college students
2006-10-28 18:37:47 · update #1
Just be yourself. She may be shy or afraid to approach you. And if she is interested in you she won't care how much experience you have or haven't had.
2006-10-28 18:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Samiann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters...are you sure this young lady is for real? She could just be messing with the whole facebook site. Be sure though ok. It wouldn't be real nice if the whole thing crashed and burned. Im sure you are a great guy and will find your soulmate in person. Stop looking and hit will hit you just like that. You can't lose something you never had though, please don't get caught up in something that will ruin your confidence. Need any further help, don't hesitate to ask. Good luck! This is advice coming from an 18-year-old. I will give you one thing...you're a very modest person.
2006-10-29 01:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by 100% TOP NOTCH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that is worth something, takes ample amount of time, patience, love and care. So, you cannot make an instant relationship and expect it to last. You must first get to know the person, not the image. The internet is the best hiding spot to portray an image of perfection which can be the opposite. Proceed with an open-mind and see if you too are really compatible in a lot of ways...
2006-10-29 01:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Joy RP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, allow me to congratulate you on your virginity. It's wonderful that someone still believes sex should be a sacred expression of love and not just another sport... As for this girl, approach her with an open mind and open EYES. The internet is a very effective disguiser of true character. Though it would make a great place to first approach her if she's not in the immediate vecinity. Get to know her in person... Best of luck to you and keep holding on to your faith. It's a beautiful thing.
2006-10-29 01:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by CJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is easy. You go to a movie or something like that. Eat out etc. and just treat each other as friends. In fact that is the best way to look at it all. You can tell her that you would very much like to get to know her better. Often times when we do know people better we change how we feel about them. But I hope that this works out for you. I met my soulmate after many many yrs of trying and failing for one reason or another. It is a wonderful feeling. Good luck
2006-10-29 01:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her, and introduce yourself, and tell her you feel you two have a lot in common, more ways than one! She will probably be just as glad to hear from you, as you are to find her-if you know what I mean. It will take a lot of pressure off her letting her know you are not a guy trying to put the heavy make on her! I mean don't blurt it right out, but somehow, get around to it soon after intro. It is a huge issue now days, so use it to your best advantage! Good luck!!
2006-10-29 01:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a big part of most relationships. It ends up getting in the way. If this girl shares the same morals as you do, I wouldn't worry about losing her. Just be the best boyfriend she has ever had. Make her forget that anyone else exists. Respect her, and in a few years, if everything works out (because people do change) marry her. Girls like that are few and far between. Hope this helps :)
2006-10-29 01:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by mbe_torres 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you being a V is wonderful! Lucky her. First thing is that women love confidence. Come straight out with it looking her dead in her eyes. No dropping head or anything. If your going to do it online give her your number and ask her to call you. Remember to stay confident. Women want a man that is strong and can lead the family as he should. Go for it! Make it a double date if that helps you. Good Luck
2006-10-29 01:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her an e-mail, start talking to her see if she has a boyfriend and if she is interested in dating. Some girls who are waiting to have sex until marriage won't even date. So write her and get something started, it can't hurt all she can say is no.
2006-10-29 01:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on face book and start chatting, let her know what you're interest are.once you both get comfortable chatting on-line or in person. then ask her out to the movies or out to lunch, dinner ,birdwatching. whatever it is you both like to do.But take your time don't rush it. work with what you got which is all the things that you do have in common. And remember always smile and always be honest no matter what!!!
2006-10-29 01:45:39 · answer #10 · answered by free2lovebadboyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋