I was such an ***-0le.i TAPED HER WITH OUT KNOWING AS A JOKE.AND TOTALLY FORGOT ABOUT IT UNTIL I WAS UP LOADING PICS ON HER COMP AND SAW IT.i DIDNT TELL HER THAT NIGHT COZ SHE WAS BUSY.SO THE NEXT DAY I TOLD HER ABOUT IT BUT IT CAME OUT WRONG AND IT SOUNDED LIKE I WAS TREATINGING HER WITH IT. IT'S NOT THE FIRST TIME I TOOK VIDO TAPES OR PICS OR RECOEDING OFF HER. IM SUCH AN IDIOT. SHE MEANS THE WORLD TO ME. SHES ONLY SORT OFF TALKING TO ME AND ITS LIKE SHE CANT BE BOTHER WITH ME THAT MUCH OR AT ALL ANY MORE. SHE EVEN SAID THAT DAY WHEN I TOLD HER ABOUT IT THAT WERE JUST GOOD FRIENDS NOW AND NOT BEST.THIS IS KILLING ME AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR HOW TO PROVE TO HER THAT SHE CAN TRUST ME. EVEN THOUGHT I MADE THOSE BIG MISTAKES. PLEASE HELP ME.I REALLY WANT MY FRIEND SHIP BACK THE WAY IT WAS.
2006-10-28 18:38:42 · 3 answers · asked by trucalling_21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be true to your name, trucalling.
your friend is angry and hurt. all you can do is ask forgiveness. Then be true to your friend, trust is earned. admit your error and prove your remorse by not continuing in a possible hurtful behavior. If you show your trustworthy you may regain the trust. be prepared to suffer the consequences of your actions.
you did good in your question here, ask your friend the same question.
2006-10-28 18:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by sllyjo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to write her a note and tell her how you feel. Have you asked her if the two of you could sit and talk things out? Do something silly that will bring back memories of the good that happens in your friendship. Buy her rose, that is not a romantic idea. All you would have to do is sign the card telling her how sorry you are. Just be yourself and go with your gut feeling. When I was young, my friends and I would have our ups and downs. If we lived in the same town, we would still hang out together.
2006-10-29 01:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm....seems that she's being kinder to you than you deserve. You betrayed her not once, but from what you're saying here, numerous times. Move on....find another friend....you've hurt her enough. Hopefully you've learned a lesson from this.
2006-10-29 01:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by tiffany_willis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋