my ex saw me at my work with his dad about 5 days ago and I swear he said hi to me but I wasn't sure since we haven't spoken in so long, so I looked down. then 3 night ago I saw him, he ran into the store to get something quick,paid at customer service and ran back to his car, mind you it was a very cold night. while he was running to his car he saw me and kept looking at me as if he wanted to talk to me but was sorta scared( I was his first and maybe only g/f). I'm 24, he's 22. He has avoided me in the past. we broke up 9 months ago. could he be ready to want to hang out again?do you think he still has feelings for me.Please help me figure this out. I have very strong feelings for him. we never had a problem, jus too many things happened all at once,it was overwhelming and I guess scared him away.but I'm hoping I get a 2nd chance at love with him.Thanks
2006-10-28 18:31:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants you back! If he did not want to see you, he would avoid you like before.
He did not just happen to bump into you by accident??? He knew where you worked.
Go for it!!!!
2006-10-28 18:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tomy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's good that you're letting it happen and haven't been too set on your making it happen since you definitely have feelings for him. Perhaps God's working this out for you. Ask yourself if you have changed. Are there ways you feel more able to relate better than before? How? List these ways. Help your hopes have substance. What rough circumstances or qualities he may have had that you hope changed? What if they have not? How can you cope or confront these head on? Speaking of God, how close are you to trusting God in all things? Even and especially romance, God is best at working out all things to good for those who trust Him and are called according to His purpose. Are you seeking His will be done? Pray. Let God know your heart. "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart." (Proverbs) Hope you can grow and grow closer to your loved one. God bless you both. Let your love grow. Perhaps, you both have matured a little more for love to have a firm root, but let your boyfriend come to understand that himself.
2006-10-28 18:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cordelia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have just been looking at u becuase he hasnt seen u in so long, he was wondering if it was really u
if u feel that way, u should try getting ahold of him. tell him u want to hang out just as friends, and see how things go from there. the chances are probably good that he still cares for u if u were (maybe) his only gf. i would say go for it!
good luck!
2006-10-28 18:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I caught mi love cheating what should i do???
well tonight i went to a party he was there and at first he didn't see me or whatever so u know i in the party dancing and **** so mi cousin want to go out for a min so i went with her cause that dude she wit was all over another female too but tell me y the hell this ***** go got damn be with this other female but before that he look me in mi eye talking bout some bull **** I LOVE YOU now u know I'm pissed but i really didn't believe him but its just the fact that u know he was there with another female and then gone lie so i left the party mi cousin trying to get me to come back down there bout i don't think i can cause me and this ***** done been together for FOUR YEARS
2006-10-28 18:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by ~Mz. Mickey Mouse~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just call him and start a friendly conversation... ask him to meet you for lunch. So it doesn't quite look like a date. See where it goes. And after ya'll start talking for a while.. tell him how you feel.
2006-10-28 18:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Britni Gayle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i've got given 2d, third, and better than i pick to enable u kno, yet, she would be able to return to u if she needs u.. she might desire to desire to work out what different innovations she has in the previous making the main important determination of her existence... 2 years is a protracted adequate time to truly get to be attentive to somebody so solid success with that.
2016-10-16 12:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it by ear. If you see him again say hi..give him a hug ask him how has he been. Then say good seeing you and walk away. Ball is in his court sit back and see how the play unfolds. Good Luck
2006-10-28 18:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the first move. That's the only way you will know for sure what's on his mind. You never know, he may be thinking "Wow, i sure miss her", or "What was I thinking". So let him go first and take things slow.
Good Luck!
2006-10-28 18:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by WillLynn 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there's feelings! I still have feelings for all my exes. Call him up to talk....or don't and keep wondering....
2006-10-28 18:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Robert B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met him twice so far... there will be a third time... if he doesn't approach you then-.... he ain't ready.
2006-10-28 18:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋