Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

"I'm afraid to talk to him... what should I do?"

"I dated dis girl and da other day I HAD TO SMACK DAT BIATCH AND TOLD HER TO MAKE ME A SAMMICH. AM I MEAN???"

I dont know... why can't we have an adult section?

2006-10-28 20:00:46 · 12 answers · asked by bloodsanctum 4 in Singles & Dating

My wife has been acting strangely lately. New clothes, working out and being fussy about her appearance.

She has been leaving the house at odd hours and staying gone for a long time for simple errands. when she returns she is distant and unattentive.

I also found motel receipts and phone numbers in her car. She said they must be a friend's.

I followed her to a motel on my motorcycle so she wouldn't see me. I hid behind my motorcycle and waited for her to leave the office. She went inside with a man she works with and didn't come out for several hours.

While I was waiting behind my motorcycle I noticed a small oil leak on my left fork seal. I need advise, is this something I can take care of or do I need to take it to a shop?

Thanks for any advice, I've been worried sick about this.

2006-10-28 19:59:35 · 22 answers · asked by Beavis Christ AM 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 19:59:31 · 15 answers · asked by Ned B 1 in Singles & Dating

She left in Feb and moved cross country. Things got really bad for a while and now we have been able to talk and she says that she loves me. But how do I know she won't leave again? This is the second time and this time we have a child together. I JUST WANT MY FAMILY BACK

2006-10-28 19:59:11 · 4 answers · asked by 3 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The situation:
I am currently renting a house with my friend and her boyfriend. Just over a month ago, the boyfriend's friend starts staying here because he was kicked out of HIS girlfriend's place for reasons unknown. He was supposed to be here for a couple nights, which stemmed into a couple weeks, which turned into just over a MONTH now. He eats our food, gets home extremely late and makes noise when I have to be up at 6am every day, and most annoying of all, he actually had the nerve to have a bunch of friends over that I didn't even know when my other roommates left for a weekend. We have not recieved ANY money from him.

My roommates don't seem to think it's as huge of a problem as I do, and are telling me that they don't want to "kick him on the curb". He has had more than enough time to find a new place. I don't feel like it's my place to be kicking him out since it's my roomie's friend - but this is getting to be a HUGE hassle.

I want him OUT. What can I do?

2006-10-28 19:58:47 · 6 answers · asked by Angela 3 in Friends

You try and try to talk to your guy, and he doesn't want to or won't listen. But when it starts to get bad and he knows you might leave him, he finally decides to open up an tell you how he's feeling? GUYS, JUST MAKE UP YOUR MINDS!!!!

2006-10-28 19:57:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean have you ever seen a midget and said "hey maybe he has a good heart and personality" ... or a 100% burn victim and said "well maybe he has a good character"?

We constantly judge by what is on the outside that is why within the first five minutes you know if you want to be with them or not.... First is what they look like and then who they are...

Granted if a chick looks hot, but is 100% ditsy after you talk with them then yes you will be turned off. However, if they look like crap and are the type of person you have always wanted to be with(personality wise) you won't know because you would not give them the time of day!

2006-10-28 19:57:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am an 21, married, and a mother. I am in the middle of yet another serious fight with my mother. When I was a teen, I misbehaved a lot and my mom still cannot forgive me. She has even said that everytime she looks at me she's reminded of the bad times. She has decided that she no longer wants any contact with me or my family because she can't get rid of her anger. These are the things I've done as a child and teen:
1) At 7, I stole something from school and lied about it.
2) At 13, I used to sneak out while baby-sitting my little brother so I can hang out with friends down the street.
3) At 14, I snuck out to see my friends and got drunk for the first time.
4) At 15, I got drunk for the second time. They called the police on me.
5) At 15, my parents and I got into a fight and they kicked me out, which I didn't return for a month.
6) At 16, I skipped school to see my boyfriend.
7) I told my parents I hated them and I'd rather live in a foster home than with them.

2006-10-28 19:56:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

shes a widow for a while and right now she lives with her sister.

2006-10-28 19:56:32 · 35 answers · asked by looklikebradpitt 3 in Weddings

i liked this guy chris he moved and now i miss him and he liked me and he thought that i had nice eyes and plus he didnt care that i was fat guys and girls how do i find some one that likes me for who i am again

2006-10-28 19:55:36 · 14 answers · asked by lily pad fat =( 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 19:55:07 · 7 answers · asked by smileyd 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Our 18 year old son has been super spoiled most of his life. He has always gotten pretty much whatever he wants. It's starting to backfire on us a bit. Now he even gets $419/month from my Soc Security disability payment while still in high school. He wants to save ALL that money so he can move out asap, by next spring or summer. He does help us out a lot to fix up rental properties that we have....on his own, he offers his help. We pay his $560/month car note, insurance, $370 for private school, he has our gas card, we pay his mobile phone of $50, buy his clothes, etc etc. He is a pretty decent kid, makes great grades, etc.

I would like to know if other parents make their 18 year olds pay for part of their own expenses, especially when they say they are saving to move out !! To me, he should be required to at least pay us a small monthly amount. He works every weekend on our rental property. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!!! THANKS!!!!!

2006-10-28 19:54:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 13, am i 2 young??

2006-10-28 19:53:40 · 12 answers · asked by Blondie94 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my guy just started dating. i have liked him for a long time and we used to be very close before i moved. we were just friends. now we are together, but now instead of friend i am the g/f. how do i act now, without seeming like i don't care, but continuing to let him have his freedom w/o being jealous?

2006-10-28 19:53:03 · 5 answers · asked by Danielle W 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been in love with this guy for 15 yrs. he told me about 5yrs ago that he wanted to wait to date because he wants to be with me forever when we do get together. and now he told me to move on with me life but he is telling his mom he still loves me. what should i do?

2006-10-28 19:51:02 · 9 answers · asked by baby-k 1 in Singles & Dating

relationship that i wanted to wait...and he says i act to freaky he didnt know he would be getting into someone who wanted to wait and he says he wants to marry me in the future and stuff but it will be to hard for him to be around me and not be able to do anything...i dont want to give him any form of sex...i want to do it just so he can realize that im a good female..im not like these other ones you can have sex with and throw out im the wifey type...by the time we have sex i want to make sure were not breaking up anytime soon....should i leave him if he wont wait?should i compromise? what should i do?

2006-10-28 19:50:50 · 35 answers · asked by gdgg g 1 in Singles & Dating

do girls like guys that are more masculine (not physically) or more of a caring sensitive type if so, do they feel insecure with a sensitive guy? i know there are a lot of different variety of opinions but... wth eh.

2006-10-28 19:49:59 · 7 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 19:49:41 · 23 answers · asked by Hacker 3 in Singles & Dating

i no longer feel the adrenaline rush when i see him. and i don't feel anything when i flashback the o good times. my heart doesn't melt for him anymore. my heart doesn't flutter like in the past when he stand next to me.

but i feel empty when w/o his presence, doesn't like to see him with other girls even if it's just friends. also, i'm super conscious when he doesn't appear to be making anymore effort towards me.

hey confused. do i actually still like him?

2006-10-28 19:49:19 · 5 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 19:48:12 · 17 answers · asked by sweet & bitter 2 in Singles & Dating

Is thinner more attractive?

2006-10-28 19:47:31 · 24 answers · asked by funnyrob01 4 in Singles & Dating

When you first get involved with someone and start to get serious everything including sex is great. Once you get married why does it all change? I for one still want it to be like it was when we meet but he says things are different now. What do you do if you feel this way?

2006-10-28 19:46:30 · 8 answers · asked by 1wickedwitch 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if so, where the hell are they?

2006-10-28 19:46:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend at school who has a bf and we call him cowboi and he doesn't mind it at all. Every time I walk by him he calls me some sort of bad word or saying and she just laughs at me and it hurts me a lot because she doesn't stand up for me. She says that he said he's gonna kill me and she just tells me that that'll only happen if I annoy him to a point. What should I do about her because I know she isn't acting like a real friend.

2006-10-28 19:45:48 · 17 answers · asked by brown eyed gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you prefer to be called by your name, or somethin like babe or a pet name etc
If you have had previous names tell me them and tell me whether you liked/disliked them

PS We are 15 yrs old

2006-10-28 19:45:14 · 21 answers · asked by master_betty_101 2 in Singles & Dating

What is it that makes a man crazy over you. Is it something they can't have.......someone who really acts interested in them.......what is it and when can you tell that you have him?

2006-10-28 19:44:12 · 20 answers · asked by BC 1 in Singles & Dating

My b/f is 16 (going to be 17 dec 12) and he has never nad sex before well i'm 14 and i had sex when i was 13 is it bad that i'm with a guy that has never had sex before please tell me cuz i feel really weird when i'm around him

2006-10-28 19:43:26 · 9 answers · asked by Engaged And Inlove 2 in Singles & Dating

i was wondering, if u ask a girl whether she likes u or not, and she says "i only like u as a friend" are girls just saying that because they are not rdy or are too shy, or do they only like u as a friend for real?

2006-10-28 19:43:23 · 7 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

Could he want 2 start over?
we took it slow in the past, for one month, then he got overly excited,we kissed and it was way too passionate,too much all at once(clothes on) I was his first g/f. he freaked out and even though he was nice about it, well he didn't call me back after that. that was 9 months ago. Saw him this summer, let him know I don't hate him.he seemed shocked but had 2 go. a few nights ago I saw him and I swear he said hi 2 me,but I looked down and didn't say anything cuz I wasn't sure. then 2 night ago he saw me in the parking lot while he was running 2 his car, and he kept looking at me like he wanted 2 say hi but he was 2 scared,like maybe he thought I was mad or something. What should I do next time I see him?Does he still have feelings 4 me. I have a feeling he hasn't had a g/f since me.

2006-10-28 19:42:49 · 7 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 19:41:47 · 3 answers · asked by boyet 2 in Marriage & Divorce