Family & Relationships - 28 October 2006

Ok, this sadly is a serious question. I was out drinking with my ex boyfriend (of one week), we were together for two years. His friends and my friends were there. Out of the blue He told his two married friends that I would suck there ***** for free, he says this is just a joke and I need to chill out, but I was totally offended by this. He says that I need to relax; I think this is a sign of absolutely no respect for me. Who agrees? Or disagrees?

2006-10-28 22:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 22:13:05 · 8 answers · asked by Casey 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night my girlfriend asked me the following question. If we where in a club together and I went to the toilet. When I came back a guy was asking her for her number. What would I do. I had had a lot to drink last night and I didn't answer the question. What is the best way to answer it. Thanks for the help

2006-10-28 22:12:46 · 23 answers · asked by ken030782@btinternet.com 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 22:11:56 · 2 answers · asked by we_will_never_die_alone_666 2 in Singles & Dating

why is it that if i meet a girl i really dont like, i am myself i have all my wisdom, i think straight. but i met this girl and all that flew out the window cause i really like her so far, why is that.

2006-10-28 22:10:52 · 3 answers · asked by DUSTY 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been married and faithful to my hubby since I was 16!I'm now 20 and am probably the most sexually repressed person of that age I know!I never got it very often...and when I did,it wasn't 4 very long ,but I didn't mind as long as I got it.Which in the first few months(literally) was at least once a night.After that,it gradually descended to about twice a week..........to sometimes once every week and a half to 2! In only 3 years!..I look better than I did(my appearance has actually improved in the last 6months).The more it goes down the less Iask 'cause Iknow I'll get pushed away or turned down.On top of being only 20,I'm a very sensual person.I find myself Mentally leaning towards other men(fantasizing,infatuation,almost to the point of self pleasure)..I've actually become emotionally invested in someone else the past year.All they did was act like theywere attracted to me(sexually and emotionally),open a few doors and pull out a few chairs andI fell hard 'cause I don't get

2006-10-28 22:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

if so what did you do?
(i was in this situation last night and i just walked off and made some real friends!)

2006-10-28 21:47:11 · 14 answers · asked by sinnedfairy 5 in Friends

A 28 yr old man goes 2weeks without sleeping with his wife and when she comes on to him,say he doesn't feel like it because he's mad at her from earlier this day......would someone that age and perfect health reject sex after that long just because of a tif earlier that day?......Or is there foul play?

2006-10-28 21:45:42 · 46 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-28 21:45:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. He has cheated on me, lied to me, and recently decided he doesn't want children, and I do... I'm 36.
We split up earlier this year, and have been back together for about 3 months. He's been trying really hard... but I just can't get my head around all the lies and cheating, and that he slept with someone else whilst we were engaged.
Also, when we had our 'split' I started building up a nice easy social life with really nice people. I've been enjoying 'hanging out' with them, they're fun and laid back and easy to get on with.
And to be honest, I'd rather be with them than with him.
My ex has however tried so VERY HARD to make things right... but I have so many bad thoughts about the past.
So last night I finished with him, and I feel awful about it. It ended badly, and out of the blue (for him), but I've been so unhappy and just want to start afresh.
I am a softy I admit... but is it normal to feel guilty for ending it?

2006-10-28 21:45:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend says he is a virgin. He is 39 years old. He and I have been dating for 2 years. I am 27 years. When we made love the first time I bled alot. Being the first time for me. But even he got a boil and the skin around his P**** tore and he also bled a bit. He met a skin doc and had to apply ointment. I got alot of friends who discourage me and tell me he is not a virgin. But he doesnt mind. He says he is and if he wasnt he would have owned up. He is smart and cute and and is from a small town in the mountains all his life. He speaks to women and says hi and bye but he says he never got involved with girls. He was very slow and tender when we made out first. It was hard to see he was faking it, coz I have had small time flings with alot of men before meeting him. It doesnt matter, but its ingrained in me that all men are never virgins. I do have my own opinions, but I just want to know the chances of a man being a virgin and if that can possibily be true. Not that it matters...

2006-10-28 21:44:48 · 4 answers · asked by Cassiopeia 1 in Singles & Dating

i know i did wrong with that married woman who i couldent stand her. but i knew i had calamidia. andave it to her in my state where i am from i never gave them her name i hated her husband that bad and she had.4. children and i really hated her. i was onley.17. she was in her.40,s. she was no more than a cheap whore.there in.w.va. and she never goes to a octor.she told me that , i just wanted her to leave me alone while i was doing mission work she wouldnt, so was that right on her part to keep bothering me by thinking i was in love with her.she is oldre than my mother, so one day in her home while her husband was gone it just happened there i almost laughted in her cheap face in her beedroom when we had sex there ,

2006-10-28 21:42:38 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

K. I think my friend is useing me. The only time she calls me is just to borrow movies all the time. And ask for me to babysit her kid. I keep telling her that I have to go to my classes at college and I'm busy , I cant watch her kid. She went to school for a whlie , but droped out. Her huspand is my boyfriend best friend. And they are the ones who hooked us up. But she sometimes asks for me and my boyfriend for money. They live on welfare and me and my boyfriend had enough of this. And when she calls me is only to borrow movies and sometimes I dont get them back for a long time. What can me and my boyfriend do. We have a life of our own and we are getting married after college , but we dont want to look after her kid , cause I need to watch mine. What can I say to her and not to hurt her feelings? And make her get the point that she could call just to hang out and not just want money or movies or babysit. Please help and thank you.

2006-10-28 21:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Friends

My wife like most women is curious about a large (girthy)penis. She will never cheat on me as we love each other very very much. We are very open with each other so I suggested that we have a couple/few one night stands with a couple larger men just for the experience. I am a bit of a vouyer and like it when she gets off.
Is there anyone who has gone in this direction?
Was the sex good(orgasmic), or was it painfull and rough and not what you expected?
Anything we should be prepared for?

We both understand that we will be having sex with these people and not making love so there will be no emotional attachment.

2006-10-28 21:41:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like to move it, move it? i like to move it, move it? i like to MOVE IT?!

2006-10-28 21:40:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I trully feel like these days that I may very well be single for the rest of my life. You know how it is, when you really like somebody and they either play you behind your back, or in your face. It kills your faith in the fact that you may find the supposed "ONE" one day. And what makes it hurt even more, is when you see happy couples that have been together for months upon months, years apon years. It really makes you envious. Im tired of it, im about to just turn into one of those people who have sex with whoever they want no strings attached and just move on with my life. Love is Dead. but of course im only sayin this because im soo frustrated, and angry. Can any of you relate to how im feeling? by the way im 20.

2006-10-28 21:36:29 · 8 answers · asked by Yahoo 3 in Singles & Dating

reply me. im for chat.

2006-10-28 21:36:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 21:34:39 · 11 answers · asked by maconsolviaa 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 21:32:30 · 9 answers · asked by jagdish s 1 in Friends

alright so I met this girl... she was engaged but her and her fiance broke it off... they were still seeing each other but then I came along. We have stayed up all night talking and we have kissed and been really close. She tells me that she has these feelings for me but always returns to her fiance.... they have a lot of classes together and she claims that she needs his help so she can pass the classes... and she has had a 5 year history with this guy.... what do you think everyone ditch her or stick with it?

2006-10-28 21:32:18 · 8 answers · asked by Casey 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 21:31:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-28 21:30:22 · 6 answers · asked by seangalolo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-28 21:29:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A close friend really screwed me over. I mean COMPLETELY. He is scheming, deceitful, crazy and immature. I was basically set up. It's a long story, but basically I helped him out, confided in him, was a great friend and he betrayed me. I don't want to do someting awful, like revenge. But I do want to do something. I need to get some guts. I was trying to tell his gf how awful he is to her (he is) and to me (we're all good friends) but I started feeling bad b/c I didn't want to convince her to break up with him. Help!

2006-10-28 21:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole83 2 in Friends

2006-10-28 21:26:14 · 7 answers · asked by Erman 1 in Weddings

i m very fat so ithink that's why she ignores me? i m in love since 2 years , she also knows this. it is one sided love. i have also given her slam book 2 fill before leaving my old high school in which she is studyng now, but she did not accepted it. some of my competers has also told 2 her parents about me. tell me what should i do? i can't think about any other girl.

2006-10-28 21:23:53 · 20 answers · asked by kanveer 1 in Singles & Dating

what general qualities do girlz want in their hubbies(boyfriend/husband), i mean most of the time a guy wants to impress them with his love by doing things out of the way & ends up annoying them. so what do women / girls want in their man..?

2006-10-28 21:23:02 · 13 answers · asked by karan s 3 in Singles & Dating

ive liked this guy on and off since we were like 6 or something. then last yr i didnt like him that much, then i liked him again and stuff like that is wot im going through since i was 6... we used to ''go out'' , wel thats wot we called it. anyway.. this summer that past i didnt like him atol. now though i like him again and wonna do something. we were sitting on each other and stuff and it was quite romantic but the problemo is that these two other girls that are friends of mine like him too and i dont want to hurt them...? wot shall i do?
xx thnx for the answers....? Tia L xxx

2006-10-28 21:22:15 · 8 answers · asked by TMFULP. 3 in Singles & Dating

he is 21 and i think something was supposed to break but nothing happened . he has av foreskin and you cant see any of the head .does this have anything to do with it. why did he not produce sperms ?

2006-10-28 21:20:35 · 25 answers · asked by geebabe 1 in Singles & Dating

she likes to give all my atention to her but thats not posible becauze i have a life.... its imposible but she doesnt want to realise taht.. she thinks that she is'nt well treated by me.. and she is everyday in a mood for arguee with me.. what can i do?

2006-10-28 21:19:51 · 8 answers · asked by ars3nal4ever 1 in Other - Family & Relationships