alright so I met this girl... she was engaged but her and her fiance broke it off... they were still seeing each other but then I came along. We have stayed up all night talking and we have kissed and been really close. She tells me that she has these feelings for me but always returns to her fiance.... they have a lot of classes together and she claims that she needs his help so she can pass the classes... and she has had a 5 year history with this guy.... what do you think everyone ditch her or stick with it?
2006-10-28 21:32:18 · 8 answers · asked by Casey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This does not sound good. First off, she cheated on him. Second, she's using him, and third, this isn't fair to you. I would say give it space and time. Be skeptical! I know how hard it is to not like someone when you already do, but the further you get into it the harder it will be.
2006-10-28 21:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I'm not understanding the question so I'll answer to the best of my ability. If she is still seeing the guy, find someone else. I was in love was a woman who said we got more in common than her and her boyfriend. Now I lost her as wonderful friend. If you known her before she was engaged, you probably only like her as a friend. My best friend is a girl I've known for 10 years. She is engaged and I accept that. Sometimes I wish I asked her out in high school, but it's only cause were so close I don't know why I didn't in the past. . I trying to she a girl named Nancy but I'm careful not to get hurt by knowing she available
2014-09-22 18:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch, if they have been together for 5yrs some guy who shes havein a fling with isnt goin to stop another couple more years, there are plenty more fish out in the sea like me lol jk, seriously hun, get a grip, shes only usin u for some fun maybe cuz her fiance isnt givin her any, i dont know, ull find another one and ull forget about her, so move on and find another
2006-10-29 04:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by sexyelmo089 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should wait around for this girl. she obviously cares for her fiance and since they have a history, its more than likely that this other guy isnt going anywhere. they are friends too, and that makes it even harder. he will always be in her life. do your own thing for now. dont pay too much attention to her. shell come running when she sees your not showing as much interest. then you have to tell her that she needs to make a decision.
2006-10-29 04:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by tma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u r doing is wrong.. becoz maybe she can go on and love him just as she used to and maybe more.. but u r standing in her way..
and i dont think she has been engaged to a guy just to pass the classes!
2006-10-29 04:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by heba! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she really loves you then why is she harping for support on this other guy, love makes a person strong not dependent on some moron.
2006-10-29 04:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by karan s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't wait for ever.
She's confused. tell her that you guys can only be friends until she sorts her **** out.
2006-10-29 04:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by seangalolo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u son of a ***** why u didn't write ur stupid story in one message...u were asking in ur first message for a girl ..now ur telling me that u found that girl!!!!u flirt man..ur flirting her now
2006-10-29 04:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋