i m very fat so ithink that's why she ignores me? i m in love since 2 years , she also knows this. it is one sided love. i have also given her slam book 2 fill before leaving my old high school in which she is studyng now, but she did not accepted it. some of my competers has also told 2 her parents about me. tell me what should i do? i can't think about any other girl.
2006-10-28 21:23:53 · 20 answers · asked by kanveer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
An American Director was seeing a Hindi film for the first time.When the inevitable scene of the hero and the heroine circling a tree singing came up he curiously looked at it .He asked his Indian host what precisely were they supposed to be doing. Pitying that the American could not understand such simple thing he grandiosely said, " They are making love,yaar." "That I understand but they seem to be young children .Instead of going to school why are they doing this? That's why I don't understand.Everything has its place in life but at the proper time."The Indian host was non-plussed.
You and your girlfriend seem to be the hero andheroine in that picture.You both are just entering your teenage and even if such calf-love is natural it is not until you become a bull and she a proper cow that it gives wholesome milk. So concentrate on your studies and make yourself somebody and then step in these narrow lanesJust sometime ago a boy of your age came to me Do you know why? He did not know how penetrate the vagina with his penis. You must be no better. So take my advice. There is an entire life before you both to deal with these things But first grow up.
2006-10-29 01:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax
these are awkward years. Odds are you have an infatuation. But I will presume you are truly in love. You have two options, muster enough courage just go talk to her or, keep your emotions to yourself and let time take its course.
If you do talk to her, any girls first response is rejection unless she has a crush on you. That doesn't seem to be the reality in your case. Thats okay. You dont have to feel devastated. If you really love her, be persistent. Dont annoy her or creep her out. Be very subtle or you'll get beaten up.
Dont go by filmi bullshit that true love happens once in a lifetime whatever. You have a long life ahead of you. You will meet nice girls. Love can happen again.
No one will find you attractive if you are fat. Face the reality. Start dieting and exercising. Its not rocket science. You can do it.
2006-10-29 03:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by yday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey chillz.......even im in +1....
i dont think u shud go after her if she ignores u....dont make urself so much available buddy!......and if shez ignoring u just bcoz u r fat then i dnt think shez a right gurl cuz ...the rite gurl wud be the 1 who wud love u for what u r!
i know that this is not very easy....as u really love her....
if u r made for each other then no one can stop u to get one (not even she can)..and if not the u or i or any1 else can't do nething
leave it to God....he'll find a way...
keep urself busy so tht u may not think much abt her..
Cheerz and Good luck!
2006-10-28 21:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well dear it's u r crucial stage and turning point of u r life , u r in d
mid of the teens started from 13een ---16een---19 so do somthing like tht she will turn around U , AND i.e you just concentrate on your studies and make your carrier first then U ask u r parents and send a proposal to her parents and get married. but till then U hv to concentrate on u r business .OK
2006-10-29 03:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Chinmaya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, u nvr have to feel bad of ur nature.ok...if u truely love her den i dun think she is worth ur love coz she sounds like a person who is fond of looks and not character...so jus 4get it. she will surely b back once she realises her mistake and study well coz always ur +1 is d basics 4 +2 and hope u xpect 2 get good marks in +2.
2006-10-28 22:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by mealon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her.
Grow up, get fit , study well and some really lovely girl will walk into your life.
I have an intuition about this. Trust me.
2006-10-28 22:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by sheetal501 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi! friend,
didn't be tensed
i know when such thing happens we are hearted, because i am also passing through same time. if u had told that girl that u love her then she loves u she'll come to u but if u forced her she will start hating u.
2006-10-28 21:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by aniket c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her and Concentrate on your studies,remember you have to write your Exams no lover or girl friend is going to come and write it for you and YOUR Future and EARNING depends on how YOU write your Exams.
2006-10-28 22:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by jgeorge 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should concentrate on ur studies as it is not the right time & she is not the right girl 4 u. love will come on ur way itself at the right time
2006-10-29 05:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear i feel in this age every body feel tht he or she loves one but love someone who loves you and not only u love her and i feel if u really love her leave her free if she is mean to b urs will b with u n if not then it was never urs tc
2006-10-29 19:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋