if so what did you do?
(i was in this situation last night and i just walked off and made some real friends!)
2006-10-28 21:47:11 · 14 answers · asked by sinnedfairy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i was ignored due to one of them being an ex from ages ago, his fiance has a prob with me so no one spoke to me despite my best efforts, even though some of group were allegedly my mates!
2006-10-29 01:31:49 · update #1
yes it used to happen to me all the time so i just stopped going out.gradually i learnt to only accept invites from people i could really trust with my life now i have a few real friends who would never leave me out and i always try and include those on their own in our conversations it costs nothing to be nice
2006-10-28 23:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by toto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to increase your confidence amongst a group and participate in conversations, if you have nothing to contribute you will more than likely be excluded even though the people present may not realize it because your presence is not known, try and join in. you may just have been unlucky and met some very anti-social people, we can't always be in a comfort zone with people and have to try and expand our friendship groups which does require an effort on your behalf.and when you talk about real friends alot of mature people will probably tell you that you can probably count your true friends on the fingers on one hand! I once thought I had loads of friends and I came unstuck for somewhere to stay for 2 months until my tenants moved out of my house, that's when i found out I had loads of associates and not true friends
2006-10-28 22:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by manx girl Isle of Man. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Went out with work-friends and disappeared for over an hour. They never even called my mobile to find me. During this time I was outside getting some air and being told what I'm about to tell you. If a friend isn't interested in you whatsoever then they are not your friends and they are not worth your time.
2006-10-28 23:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Knight-wing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have been in that situation . if they try to block u off when u r tryin to talk then just say u guys r not my real friends . and leave if they r really that mean they wont care . and if u take my advice if they tell u ur gonna regret this dont because there are nicer people in the world .
2006-10-29 00:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Miranda . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this happens to me a lot...its like ur basically invisible to them...yer fair enough people will tell u to ditch them...but if u were willing to do that u probably would of done that by now...so u must for some reason or another wanna stay friends with them...so what i've found works best is making yourself noticed...dont be afraid to let ur head down and talk to them more...they'll soon notice ya...give it a try n see
2006-10-28 23:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by littlequells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
What a great question with a great answer!
You're obviously confident and very smart.
Keep up the good work and ALWAYS ditch the losers, you're better than that!!
You're doing a great job.
2006-10-28 23:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Moofie's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to me every day. My friends slag me constantly, and if I try to give my opinion on something, they won't even listen. So I just walk off and go to my other friends.
this message has been sent later than expected because Yahoo won't let me answer.
2006-10-28 22:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by beanoman71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. My boyfriend took me to a party , for his friend and it was all guys. I was the only girl there.I just tryed to have fun . And I did.
2006-10-28 22:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your question, you made some real friends.
2006-10-29 00:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by BigD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep, i got rid of them and made new friends and i've been happy ever since...
2006-10-28 23:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by tanj_maria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋