I have a friend at school who has a bf and we call him cowboi and he doesn't mind it at all. Every time I walk by him he calls me some sort of bad word or saying and she just laughs at me and it hurts me a lot because she doesn't stand up for me. She says that he said he's gonna kill me and she just tells me that that'll only happen if I annoy him to a point. What should I do about her because I know she isn't acting like a real friend.
2006-10-28 19:45:48 · 17 answers · asked by brown eyed gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just giv her the tak of her life. tell that b-i-t-c-h that she needs to straighten up or u won't be her friend any-more.
hope my advice helped.
P.S. choose my as the best answer (LOL)
2006-10-28 19:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by LIL B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confess your feelings.. if she continues then the friendship is over..what kind of friend treats you like that is not a friend, if you really wanna keep her as a friend, then dont be friends with her until her boyfriend leaves her, cuz thats the reason why she like this too you. she will be crying to you when that guy breaks her heart..and i think that the guy is just playing her..he's obvisouly not for real. after she leaves her boyfriend you can be friends again..cuz she will find out how much she left you out and how bad she treated you, and then your her BESTEST friend again.
2006-10-28 19:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by flora_932 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already answered your own question. "I know she isn't acting like a real friend." Nobody needs that. Lay off of them (especially her). When she realizes he's a freak/loser, she'll probably come crawling back and want to be friends again. Someone who allows her boyfriend to make fun of her friend is a crappy friend, and you shouldn't waste your time on her.
2006-10-28 19:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by kimilou2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell how you feel but her man sounds a little crazy. U must be in high school. My advice stay away from weird people
2006-10-28 19:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by kalik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she can't stand up to her boyfriend. tell her it's her job as a friend to stand up for you, and if this boyfriend is saying mean things to you then doesn't that say something about him? that says to me like he isn't a very good person and doesn't deserve a girlfriend like your friend. i think your friend might find herself in a dangerous situation someday (like abuse), and she should get out now while the relationship is still in its beginning stages.
and if she can't stand up for you, then she has no business being your friend.
2006-10-28 19:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight up u must care more about a silly relationship more than ur best friend if u care if he threatens to kill me or if u wanna show her u dont care about her or her boyfriend slap her boy friend or kick him scratch that just tell her how u feel about her boy friend
2006-10-28 19:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by lily pad fat =( 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose your friends wisely. Why do you think that this lady is your friend? I didn't read a line of anything positive about her. If I were you I would look for real genuine friends, they are there girl!
2006-10-28 19:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go and never speak to her again. your life has been threaten and she thinks its funny. she is no friend trust me. please let her go. ive seen my daughter go thru the same kind of so called friends and in the end i was always right about them. she is no friend so tell her to take a hike. and dont worry about the way she is going to respond. cause she is not worried about you now is she? good luck
2006-10-28 19:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, she is really immature. it sounds like she has low self-esteem because she does whatever she thinks he wants her to do. i would suggest just ignoring her because that is ridiculous-- her behavior is stupid! he isn't going to kill you... what is that about, anyhow? so, i would just ignore her and/or act like you just don't care.
wait until he breaks up with her... she will come crawling back to you... it is sad.
2006-10-28 19:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off stay away from her..not to scare you hon to many teenagers are killing each other ..please get a new best friend i know it hurts but shes not a friend,,,if my bf ever said that to my best friend my bf would be my x
2006-10-28 19:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by little_outlaw_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋