My b/f is 16 (going to be 17 dec 12) and he has never nad sex before well i'm 14 and i had sex when i was 13 is it bad that i'm with a guy that has never had sex before please tell me cuz i feel really weird when i'm around him
2006-10-28 19:43:26 · 9 answers · asked by Engaged And Inlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, 13. another yahoo s.l.u.t
2006-10-28 19:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely Good!
For this reason...by being a virgin your boyfriend has saved himself for the person that he will marry.
When a person sleeps around they not only share intimate experience, but an imprint. In otherwords, when they do find thier soul mate and marry them, they bring "every relationship" they ever had to that marriage. The comparing starts.
When your spouse does not do the things that past relationships did, the focus is moved from your spouse to past relationships. This always causes regret, and thoughts of others to the marriage.
So when you walk down the aisle to get married...you essentially are holding hands with everyone you ever had sex with.You also carry their DNA because of relations with them.
Another fact is "Why do you suppose there are so many commercials for herpes (HPV) medications? Multiple partners...How about clamydia? Multiple partners.Wrong partner...STD's? Too many partners. Not to mention Aids....
All single people should say to themselves "I am worth waiting for"...
There is nothing wrong with abstinence (celibacy). Don't take the chance of ruining someones life...
God ordained marriage because he knew that it was not good for a man to be alone. He blessed marriage by ordaining pro-creation and children. He never intended for priests to be celibate. And for this reason it is written "A man shall leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife".
As for all the gay people in the world...God loves you...It is ok to be gay. It is just a sin for you to have sex. So for gays, you must remain celibate with one another to avoid Gods judgement. Sorry,
sometimes the truth hurts.
So lady, be so happy that you have the gift of a man who is waiting for the right person. As for you having sex at 13, when you have Jesus as your Savior, all your sins (past, present and future are washed away, and you are a new person. So if you have not done so already, ask Jesus into your heart. You are then like a virgin in His eyes, and you can then forgive yourself and be the woman that God has chosen you to be. (In Gods word, the Christian church is Christs bride, He is the groom.)
Best of Gods blessings to you both!
2006-10-29 02:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 14, you probably would be better off going with someone like that to keep you from getting pregnant or something--unless, of course, you wish to have sex and if you do watch out for STD's, HIV, etc. Always use protection. Actually, he must be very strong and honorable to have not tried to get you to have sex, which means he respects you and your young age.
2006-10-29 01:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you’re asking if it’s bad that he’s a virgin, then, no, it’s not. What is bad is that you started having sex at 13. You do realize that you’re below the age of sexual consent in every single state, don't you? Which means it’s illegal for you to have sex.
2006-10-29 01:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that uncomfortable break up with him. if he hasn't had sex good for him. he isn't tainted like most of the population. and if he was a girl he really could wear white on his wedding day. good for him. how many ppl can say that. i know i can't.
2006-10-29 01:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be proud of him, that he has kept himself pure for his bride, and anyway at that age, there are many other issues to take care of than sex. I am damn proud of that guy, there are still nice guys out there.
2006-10-29 01:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by Trinity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no but you need to slow your hot butt down cause you are young. maybe you can learn something from him.
2006-10-29 01:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing wrong with it at all...
Just relax...
2006-10-29 01:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't have sex, you're too young.
2006-10-29 01:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by J S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋