I have two best friends.. we are always together but they don't share secrets with me.. and everytime we are together, I cannot relate with their conversation because of that thing.. and it occurs everytime..
I decided to cut our friendship.. but they don't know the reason..
a friend tell them and they always want to approach me to ask apologize..
but I keep on staying away from them..
What sould I do/?
2006-10-28 19:40:05 · 7 answers · asked by Purps.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i also keep on asking them..
i also open some topics with them but they don't stop conversing with each other seems that they are not with me..
2006-10-28 20:09:31 · update #1
What u should do is find yourself another bestfriend. Someone who can share secrets with you cuz thats what friends do. I went thru the same situation and know how it feels so i decided to make new friends and i feel much better now so hopefully u can make new friends too. good luck!
2006-10-28 20:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking them on certain topics what they r talking about? It could be that you have out growned each other as best friends, that happens sometimes. Maybe don't cut the relaionship but just back away and try and find other ppl you may have more in common with.
2006-10-28 20:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by jenii75 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What puzzles me about this is how you could consider them "best friends" in the first place. Doesn't sound to me like there was much closeness there.
2006-10-28 19:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it another go, but be assertive, not aggressive, but assertive. Glad u asked and care about yourself.
2006-10-28 19:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you tell them how you feel, communication is key! what if they were planning you a suprise or something, a closed mouth never gets fed!
2006-10-28 19:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably wont work out. 3 is a crowd
2006-10-28 21:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jenster 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should forgive them but if it happens again then they wouldn't really be your true friends
2006-10-28 20:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋