if i ask a girl if they like to go out, but im not TOTALLY familer with her, and she says "no" ..do u think i should try to get to no her more and ask her out again later on? or do girls find that annoying and thinks im just a dumba ss
2006-10-28 19:36:25 · 4 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls find it pretty annoying alright when a guy does not even understand single-syllable words such as "no". Doesn't exactly make you look like Einstein if you need to ask for clarification of that.
2006-10-28 19:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is the mistake tat most guys commit... asking girls out without getting to know them better! when i shoot this to some of my guy frenz, they will always answer me back by saying "askin them out is one of the ways to get to know them better" i agree with tat, but not when u r TOTALLY unfamiliar with her.. she'll be too surprised n perhaps even scared to say yes, cos she don't know you (remember wat mommy always, do not talk/go out with strangers). i would suggest to u tat u take it slow.. if u r really interested in her, then be patient.. wait for this issue to cool down first, and then u can start by having some minimal conversations with her.. in the meantime, try finding out more things abt her thru her frenz... maybe in time to come, she'll be able to sense ur sincerity and say yes to u after all!
Good Luck!
2006-10-29 01:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way you are going to get more no's than yes. Move on there are more women out there, maybe she didn't think you are her type (what ever that means)
2006-10-29 01:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by 3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you never know, feelings can change later on. i would get to know her better, and give her the chance to get to know you better, and maybe down the road her feelings for you will change.
2006-10-29 01:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋