I'm currently on a long distance thing with my girlfreind, right until I get the cash to move to her place. No problem.
However I was given access to her mail account by her and found an email discussing how she loved me AND her best friend sent to one of her friends. She really serious with me and I'm pretty shocked. Although I'm pretty certain nothing has happened between the two of them.
So what do I do?
Leave it alone and hope that things sort out or confront her (everything is fine, apart from me finding this out) and admit that I looked through her account?
So confused....
S
2006-10-28 23:11:42 · 8 answers · asked by S Cobolt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st go back into email and click on unread so she won't know, then i would stop being jealous checking her stuff. you have to trust her. if she was too cheat what can you do? nothing -exactly so don't tell her because then she won't trust you. that is a turn off -women don't like it..
it's gonna be okay..
2006-10-28 23:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would she give you access if she didn't want to run the risk of you looking in her account? If she was testing you, well...you passed the test, you're curious! And, as for the friend and the betrayal, why should it bother you? Don't you talk to your friends about confusing issues, or do you rely totally on Yahoo for your love issues?
2006-10-28 23:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its hard from the start with long distance relationship. But seeing you are aware of what was in her mail. you might like to let her know what you have read and how you are feeling. She might get anger or unset. but you have got to understand. it not easy for her either
2006-10-28 23:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she gave you access then she feels she has nothing to hide
ok so she likes another guy --- thats fine --- she is with you
i would not worry --- why confront her??
tell the truth -- you were curious and looked and saw this mail --- dont get worried by it
2006-10-28 23:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kinda depends how you feel about her. Try talking to her, and tell her the truth. She should understand, if she doesn't, maybe she doesn't really love you but anyway, good luck...
2006-10-28 23:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Caity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. Very important!
2006-10-28 23:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you like it if she read your emails don't jump to conclusions i wouldn't question her about every email she receives like that.
2006-10-28 23:24:46 · answer #7 · answered by kittywiz28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with buzzbeepr
2006-10-28 23:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋