I met this chick on my 21st bday which was october 4th and it turned out it was her bday too and we got together and had some drinks and hit it off...she is bi and after that night she has been flirting with me and she is really into girls...so i asked her if she wanted to watch some movies and eat some popcorn on halloween night and she said that would be great...see the thing is, i am super shy around females..i blush like mad if any female is hitting on me...i really like this girl...i have a hard time flirting..i get all choked up and stuff, is there anything i can do to make the night go smoother?....i don't even know if she even likes me that way or not, even though she has flirted with me...but people flirt all the time, sometimes it doesn't mean anything...i am lookng for a gf...but if it ends up being a friends with benefits thing i guess i'm ok with it....i haven't had a gf or a fling with a chick in a few years...
2006-10-28 23:07:27 · 3 answers · asked by Sydney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw guys i'm a chick too lol
2006-10-28 23:28:35 · update #1
Hey, it's ok to be that way I used to get that way around girls as well. What I found that works is to just try being friends and not expect anything more than that until I knew how she felt for sure. Just have fun together and don't think about where the friendship is going to go, if it happens then great, if it's just friends fine, if friends with benefits, that works too, then maybe it'll be boyfriend/girlfriend. Just take it easy, be calm and have a good time. Also, BE YOURSELF! Otherwise she may get the wrong impression about you and that could lead to her not being interested in you or could lead to a nasty break-up when she finds out who you really are inside. Best of luck- James
2006-10-28 23:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by zekemilli4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a bottle of good wine, some munchies, make sure the movies are fun and in the spirit of the evening and let things take their course...and buddy: lighten up! She's just a GIRL!!!
2006-10-29 06:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like her confidence will make up for your lack of confidence,
tell her your nervous, she will interpret this in a good way because fear and excitement are the same signal in the brain .... fact!!
so she know you are excited by her.
you'll be fine
2006-10-29 06:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ben M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋