I've passed through several cases where you meet a friend ( in this case a guy) and at first they are nice to you. They seem honest, sweet, etc. for the first couple of days. Then somehow something has to happen and this "friend" stops talking to you.
Why in earth does this happens? What is it that you deserve this crap when you trusted someone and talked and shared things in a good friendly way? Why is people like this?
2006-10-28 23:27:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh yeah, I am talking about a nice friendship, not love or crushes
2006-10-28 23:33:12 · update #1
simply because there's no assurance in this world... everything happen for a reason, but only God knows what is it!!! Just always be on the right path...He will always replace what you lost with someone better!!!
2006-10-28 23:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie i've been there before
maybe that guy had a crush on u, and became closer to u because of that, and when he noticed that u dont feel the same way and that u only think of him as a friend, he lost interest
maybe he isnt looking for a friend
maybe he liked u so much that it hurts when u treat him as a friend
and maybe he chose to stay away from u, for not to "love" u
try to remember, maybe u upset him in a way or another, some people are over senstive that we dont notice we upset them.
dont feel bad, try to contact him and know whats happening (put ur pride aside for a minute)
if u dont get an answer, then dont u ever care for someone who doesnt care about ur feelings.
goodluck and dont let this affect ur relationship with others in the future
2006-10-28 23:53:33 · answer #2 · answered by Yasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think first maybe u had say something that hurt him.
guy will be nice to girl for the first time...but after realize that the girl is not they type then its might be the reason...and they will stop talking to you.
some guy are honest in relationship,mean they make friend with girl or guy without any reasons
guy that only talk for only couple of days actually looking for something..gf. and u might not be the type that he like.
2006-10-28 23:37:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people just might take you for grante and think 'oh i hang around with her till i find a better mate' or something. sometimes they just use you like that but before you go and share private thing with these people that you only met today or yesterday or two days ago. first just find out if they are honest and true to you and after a few weeks they should truthfully honest and WANT to be your friend. hope i helped
2006-10-28 23:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God regularly whilst making an attempt, as God is helping people who support themselves as an alternative than people who are lazy. Lord Krisna stated in Bhagavad Gita, we have got to deliver out our works and resign the fruit of our motion. So we need to hold making an attempt and uncover pleasure in doing our paintings, whether or not or no longer we get the preferred influence. We must no longer lose wish. Do your high-quality and depart the relaxation to God,it's going to all come correct a few day or night time.
2016-09-01 04:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by chautin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They get to know you and they do not like you. If this happens freguently then maybe it is your personality. Evaluate yourself, then proceed. Next time in next relationship of friendship do not mention something you do regularly and see if the next friendship lasts longer and slowly you will see what people like and do not like about you. Next, evaluate your friends and where you meet them. If you hang with bums you will have bums as your friends with no drive to succeed. If you hang with good people you will feel wanted and loved.
2006-10-28 23:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never a boy or a girl be a friend the love always come
2006-10-28 23:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they didn't like you? Maybe you don't appretiate them enough? Provide more details.
2006-10-28 23:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by zenica4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are bored with you
2006-10-28 23:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Veronica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋