Im really curious cause Ive only been with my husband and there's loads of sexual tension between this guy Im chatting with. Im happily married and I think my husband gives me what I need sexually but what if..? Its just a one night stand and I cant stop thinking about this plz help.
2006-10-28 23:05:13 · 40 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you risk you marriage for a one night stand? If you are happily married you don't need and should not want to have sex with another man. It is breaking your marriage wows . And even if you are thinking that your husband will never know, how do you know that you wont feel so bad about it after wards that you are gonna tell him just to get it out of your system? What if you found out your husband did this to you? How would you feel? Don't act on this!!!
2006-10-28 23:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happily married then why are you even chatting with this guy? Your husband won't find out but YOU will have to live with this the rest of your life.
2006-10-28 23:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had a one stand with this man it would be great for a while then the feelings of guilt would start to set in and you would probably wonder why you did it. Think about your husband and the time you have been together. If your husband found out he would find it very hard to trust you and you would lose the bond you have with him.
2006-10-28 23:37:42 · answer #3 · answered by Moira S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even consider risking your marriage for some slug off the internet? There isn't sexual tension between you 2. There are INSTANT MESSAGES. If you are happily married, What are you doing? Think Think Think...
2006-10-28 23:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if this was your husband and he went ahead and cheated on you with someone- a one-night stand? Would you be angry, hurt, want a divorce, feel like you are worth NOTHING? I ask this because he will find out- someone- he will and you are going to have to live with those consequneces. The reason that you are so sexaully attrated to this guy is because he is off-limits and you enjoy the thrill of doing something "wrong". Take my advice and stop thinking about cheating. Is your marriage really worth the chance of loosing it??
2006-10-28 23:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Diddy didn't do it! you're happily married to your husband, no point spoiling it, stuff like this always gets out in the end and leads to bad stuff, you know how it is..
Think about whats best, future with your husband or a 1 night stand with a random guy that you probably hardly know.
just say no..!
2006-10-28 23:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by crash2k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please take advice from someone who's been there. one night of cheap thrills is not worth the sacrifice of a loving marriage. You may have alot of tension with this guy but does he know you? Does he know your favorite things? How you like your coffee? Do you love him like you do your hubby? If you need to spice up relationship how about asking the hubby for some fantasy role play or something. Good Luck!!
2006-10-28 23:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it it will be the biggest mistake of your life. First of all it was your choice not to have sex with anyone but your husband so now you need to understand that if you do this you will be carrying this with you for ever and I don't thnk that you will be able to hold it in. so my advise is to stop talkng to the guy because all he wants to do is break up your marrage. is it really worth giving up everything just to see what sex would be like with another guy. stop chatting to him and use this time to try new things with your husband
2006-10-28 23:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by robruscoates 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truely happily married there is no reason for this question. Cheating is wrong your husband will find out then no more happy marriage!
2006-10-28 23:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by monkay78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband satisy your sexual needs so wats the need of another man?? Its betrayal towards your husband n if u r self-respected woman, u won't sell yrself to any man who wants u for 1 night n dumps u later...How many answers u will get, the decision lies in yr hands.. do a gud decision..gud luk
2006-10-28 23:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋