Hmm..
I am 33. I like a girl who is 27 but i couldn't determine her feelings for me as we are still friends at this stage although i do know we have mutual feelings unlike most of the other platonic friendships i have.
There are few gals who enjoy my friendship but i turn down 4 dates thus far as I felt since they might not lead to marriage there is no point starting.
Somehow at this moment i notice another gal, 7 yrs my junior who seems to like to stick with me. i like her company too, i mean the interaction is so enjoyable. But i wouldn't wish to hurt her as she is really a nice gal. I sense that she like me but i hope i am wrong.
The 27 yr old gal is the kind of gal who i am looking for the lifetime, even my 2 ex-gf will never come so close.
I wish things is much easier for me and her.
I really don't like mind guessing.
What should i do?
2006-10-28 23:27:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is ur plan,
See which girl do u like most, is it “A” or “B”
If it is “A”, then tell her about ur feelings, what u think of her and ur future plans and ask her if she is interested to know u more and to see if things might works out.
Girls like serious, straight and honest guys. And if things worked out, then send me an invitation card to ur wedding!!
But u have to say to the other girl “B”in a nice way that u r seeing someone else so that she gets the friendship thing straighten out. And so u r giving her the chance to meet someone else.
In case “A” is not interested in u in the first place then at least you didn’t waist time thinking of someone who has no feelings towards u.
So it is a good chance to get to know “B” more, coz sometimes we see what we want to see in the people who we love or even like, and that might be ur case with girl “A”, though “B” might have much better qualities.
Anyway, the above plan will give a fair chance to everyone including urself. And plz don’t play smart trying to know both in the same time, coz girls do have a good raider that will catch u when u least expect it, so u better keep smiling if u took this road.lool just kidding and it is so obvise from ur question that u r an honest person.
Good luck.
2006-10-29 00:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by Tulip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to tell if a girl likes you. Some girls like to play games. I think that maybe you should try to talk to her or drop some hints about how you feel then see what her reaction is. I know that this is the time in your life that you want to get settled down so I think just go for and see what happens. The chances are she likes you as well. Don't worry about it for to long. She might not be there for ever. She might even be waiting for you to make the first move. Remember to be sensitive to her when talking, just ask her out to dinner or somewhere where you think she'd like and go for it. Sorry but thats all the advice that I can think of. So good luck and don't leave it to long.
2006-10-29 06:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for broke and tell her your feeling and ask her if she would like to try dating.Worst that can happen is she say she's not interessted but it will leave an impression on her of your confidence and possible lead to her hooking up with you later on.Stranger things have happened but when hearts are involved why act so differently to the situation be honest and forward with her atleast she will respect for you and admire the bold attitude you show.
2006-10-29 06:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by rsbalent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out for a "colleague" lunch or something and see how things work out. If u both enjoy it, set a real date for a nice romantic dinner. don't rush her though, u don't wanna look pathetic if she didn't have u on mind. If things go on really well, the other girl will notice that u have someone now and will probably back-off from hitting on u if she is.
Good luck
2006-10-29 06:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by the freakin' analyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell to the 27-years old lady what you feel about her, since you said the feeling is mutual or else she might think that you only want her for companionship...
do not give the other lady a false hope with you, yes, you both enjoy each other's company but that's the limit only friends...it is better to be honest to her also okey...
2006-10-29 06:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by alexjem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you shud tell his other girl that you are already into someone else so that she gets the "friendship" bit straighten out and clear out of the way.
Next, approach this girl you like and tell her how you feel. she cud be waiting for you to make the first move.... you won't loose anything by being honest.
2006-10-29 06:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck
2006-11-01 01:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you like to be friendly with girls and like rotation. Why not remain single and enjoy life without running into trouble?
2006-10-29 06:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋