I was going to call wednesday since she was going out of town.
monday & tuesday. Should I call today to wish her a good trip
or would this sound too desparate or anxious? or pushy ?
I have not talked to her since past thursday..
If I call, should I keep it brief?
SHOuld I ask to set a time for this week to get together for
a 2nd date ??
2006-10-28 23:10:49 · 14 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call her when you feel to...if she gives you grief or acts as if it means nothing, then leave her alone until she's a little more enthusiastic. You aren't a clairvoyant or a trained monkey, you're a man, with the same emotions and needs as everybody else. Be cool, dude!
2006-10-28 23:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wait until almost a week to call this girl back up? That is way too long. You should have called her the next morning to thank her for a wonderful evening and that you had a really good time. That is where you pop the question of a second date with her sometime after she gets back from out of town. A lot of women like it when guys call them back. They can't stand a guy who can't use the telephone. If you wait too long, she will move on to the next guy and you lose out.
2006-10-28 23:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by now she probably thinks that you are not intrested but if you really like this person and want a second date call her what do you have to lose right. when you call and she sounds alittle upset apoligize for taking so long to call back and keep brief only if the conversation isn't going so well if it is get second date.
2006-10-28 23:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by kittywiz28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do call her make sure that u r ready and that u feel comfortable otherwise; shw will think u are a stalkish loser. Anyway when you do, dont make it brief nor 2 long either...like try talking about ur last date and try talking to her about anything..girls like to talk; so be laid-back and be friendly hopefully she will see what a great guy u are
2006-10-28 23:15:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and give her a buzz. It's been 3 or 4 days (depending if you call tonight or tomorrow). That's a reasonbly good amount of time to pass without seeming desperate.
2006-10-28 23:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Emporer_Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. Tell her that you had a good time on Thursday. Wish her a good trip. Ask her out again if you want to see her.
2006-10-28 23:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should call a day or so later even if you dont want to go out with her again.just to be civil.as for desparate if you make a call back you will never be thought that.you will be sought after for being so considerate.on the next date show up with one red rose..so romantic..
2006-10-29 01:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by jackie l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm a girl, if I was her, I'd like you to call no matter what. If you don't call, she'll think you have no interest in her. You don't have to be brief, just be yourself and keep things flowing. Good Luck...
2006-10-28 23:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Caity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can take her out for a candle easy dinner u grants her a customized accesory on which a image of u the two is outlined(maximum photograph studios do it) make some thing for her alongside with the present,it would desire to be baking a cake,her fav dish or an straightforward card. a bouqet of flora with a field of chocs and a candy notice interior it. pretend that u've forgotten her b'day and on the tip,supply her the sweetness...........
2016-10-16 12:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was feeling you? yes and make it brief, wish her a good trip and say well when you get back would you like to go out again, if she says yes then still make it brief, good luck, and god bless
2006-10-28 23:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by pammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋