Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

My husband and I have been living together only for five months now and one weekend he is with me and the next he is out with his friends antil two or three in the morning. One time he came at five. I have been patient and tried to understand his needs to be with freinds. But dose it have no limit? We have talked about it each time and he always tells me to understand and that he is not doing anything else like being with another woman or something.
What shall I do?

2006-10-30 18:35:31 · 15 answers · asked by terri 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a family that has 3 daughters...
each have been married once.

the youngest daughter was the first to divorce
after that divorce her parents got a new game room onto their house and a pool in the back yard.
this daugher has since remarried to a childhood sweetheart who is a farmer with a large family farm.

the middle daugher was the second to divorce. her husband eventually got the 200-500 farm that he wanted..
after she divorce him her parents got that farm...
she has not remarried..

the oldest daughter's marriage lasted the longest. her husband acquired wealth by owning stocks in public companies..
after she divorced him i lost contact with her parents but the ex-husband and his daughter's stock were taken from them..
she has not remarried..

should I consider a relationship with either of these two unmarried women?
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2006-10-30 18:34:49 · 4 answers · asked by DM 4 in Marriage & Divorce

OK welll...
theres this boy from my church ive had a crush on since the day i seen him.
i only see him on weds. and sundays.

welll.. i went two weeks without even introducing myself. then me and my cousin went and talked to him, we ended up sitting together at the beginning of youth group, and i got his number at the end.

well. me and my cousin talk to him on the phone every night for like 3 hours.. but tonight it was just me and him and we were talkin..well he KNOWS i like him. we were talkin bout my cousin and the boy at church she likes and then he says, do you like anyone at church? and my face was sooo red. im so glad he couldnt see me right then. WELL. i started laughing and said *** if you dont know. and he played clueless then finally admited he had known for awhile.. since i gave him the note(this was a day before i talked to him i gave him a note sayig i wanted to be friends)
k. well anyways. the first time we talked i found out he had a girlfriend. which made me SO sad but i figured ohh well couz i wanted to be his friend first anywAYS. ..what should i do. i like him so much. its just something about it i litterally cant wait till wed. how can i impress him? what should i say? i mean im the type of girl who knows how to get what she wants but im drawing a blank..PLEASE HELP ME. and oh. today on the phone we were talkin bout something and he goes, we have some kind of weird chemistry goin on here.


help please

2006-10-30 18:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Deziix33 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm Dead Inside!

2006-10-30 18:32:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 18:32:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it has been a relation of 2 years and a half

2006-10-30 18:32:00 · 8 answers · asked by tesa 1 in Singles & Dating

Blind date (friend of a friend). Girl spent the whole night texting her friends, kept getting my name wrong and then called me ungentlemanly (even a real word??) when I asked the waiter to halve the bill. Suprising a few days later that my friend said she had a great time and wanted to meet again!

Come on, share your worst date stories!

2006-10-30 18:30:51 · 15 answers · asked by lataliano 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 18:30:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 18:29:39 · 18 answers · asked by cc 1 in Weddings

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2006-10-30 18:29:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like a girl very much, and I think she does like me. But she has BF, but they are not in good conditions in relation. But they are together. What can I do? What should I say to her? I think it doesnt make sense if i just want to wait.

2006-10-30 18:29:06 · 8 answers · asked by goody_goody 1 in Singles & Dating

how long does it usually take for a girl to call you after she got your number at a club like scene, say if she is interested of course. ^_^

2006-10-30 18:28:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sister in law sent an email and said that because she married into a large family (her new hubby has 5 sisters) that they are not going to give presents and instead will be giving ‘picture cards’. This is someone who just had a huge wedding (paid for by m&d) which we had to attend (we live 8 hours apart so there were trips for showers, hotels, rental car, gas, outfits for her required ‘formal’ attire reception & gifts) they travels abroad several times a yr, they do not have kids but plans to and are both well off and established in their careers.

My husband’s Christmas shopping list grew by 12 kids when we got married - it’s just part of joining families.

I guess it bothers me because I wouldn’t care if she just handed over the card at Christmas – it’s not the lack in gift but the fact that she sent this pre Christmas email with her decision and lame a$$ excuse.

Her choice feels like she just can't be bothered. Am I wrong to think she’s just lazy and selfish?

2006-10-30 18:28:34 · 10 answers · asked by PopcornMommy 2 in Family

im female 26, is it okay if i go out with someone younger than me, say three years younger...please help..thanks.

2006-10-30 18:27:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that u are not an Angel? I wonder what a game are u playing..

2006-10-30 18:23:25 · 6 answers · asked by angelina 2 in Singles & Dating

women still looked like women but thought like a guy? If that was the case, I think I could go to sleep now.

2006-10-30 18:22:54 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Well if you look at my previous post about my blind date that happened 2 weeks ago, that was a nightmare. But from reading the posts on here, I've decided that I'm gona go on a different blind date and open up again.

Emailed her and we're gona go out to eat at a seafood place, and then we'll see where things go. She said she really think's I'm cute but she hasn't shown me any pictures of her yet, so I guess I'll take a chance. Ladies and men, advice before I go?

2006-10-30 18:22:09 · 10 answers · asked by bloodsanctum 4 in Singles & Dating

well today I asked him "so watz going on between us.. " like I asked him before were this rel. was goign and he said he didt know.. and he woudlnt give me a reason.. well when I asked him he said idk right now... so i said back .. how do u not know.. and he said well I have feelings for u but I still have feelings for my x gf....so .. yeah
and today I pretty much spent the whole day with him ... we have so much fun together.. liek we play pool for like 3 hours , take about random suff... idk

Im not sure waht to do now.. because do I really want to wait aroudn for him to basically choose which one he is going to be with ... and he is going to madison and then home.. so then the whole weekend Im going to be thinking about what he is doing because I dotn trust him ...


please help ..

2006-10-30 18:21:53 · 6 answers · asked by iceskatingteri06 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to do something a little crazy. The problem is men sometimes are a mystery. I think that I should greet him at the door. Help me be creative. What should I wear and what should I do. If you are under 18...this is too grown for you. If you have a lady, had a lady, or a wife, what would you consider sexy?

2006-10-30 18:20:15 · 6 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Singles & Dating

after me and my girlfriend broke up, a month later i had a one night stand with another girl like an idiot, and its something i never thought i would of done and i hate the fact i did it. about 2 months later me and my ex girlfriend got back together. and have been together for awhile now. i feel really guilty like i did somthing wrong, i want to tell her but feel like she would break up with me, and i really really care about her. should she get mad at me for having sex with another girl when we were not together?, is it normal to feel this guilty?

2006-10-30 18:19:06 · 23 answers · asked by Jets#1 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my husbands family is well either rude or very passive i was goignt o send this letter to my husband is it awful? I am not sure if its beacuse we have not gotten to talk but.. here goes..
Hey honey… How are you? Wow I got to talk to you tonight…It was awesome! My mom said she would fly the kids and me down if your parents could buy your one-way ticket. They might even have to take us to the airport my mom said she would rent us a car… It’s like 450 per person but your parents would only have to pay like 200doallrs. I feel like it is a very bad idea for me to get on the road by myself with two kids. What if I had a flat, get lost, fall asleep 17 hours is a lot honey. I want to see you graduate more than anything but I am not sure how we are going to do it. I miss you more than ever right now you have no idea. I am getting all your letters. Honey, I am so proud of you. You are doing so well. You have worked really hard at all of this! Dan, I did not want to write a letter to you like this but it’s killing me. I have to ask you on last time. Well ever since you went to San Antonio there has been a dramatic difference. No one in your family has even called to check on me, the kids, etc. I have called your Mom- Dad several times to give them the most up-to-date info that I have and there is a weird awkward silence. I am not sure what was said. Dan I feel the most important thing is that our relationship be set on a foundation of truth. Never got the $100 and you have never inquired about it either. If there is anything you would like to tell me let me know. Cause I have a feeling of uneasiness I have went out of my way for you and your family to be greeted with an awkward silence I feel there is “PLAN” like you always talk about witch they are fully aware of. For what other reason would the roles change so much. I have to be real the way you left me makes me feel uneasy. The night before you left you literally rolled over and went to sleep you made no attempts to show me any intimacy. Now I know we were at my moms I did not expect you to nail me then or anything but I mean kissing, talking, etc. I hope your not writing all these letters to me to keep me baited or because you think that is the expectation. I want to know your TRUE feelings because our last moments before you left reflected other wise. I cannot continue to be engaged in this sabotaging type relation. Dan if your heart desires one thing and your showing me society’s expectation be honest with your self. I love you more than anything and made a promise to you on September 14 2005 that I plan on keeping. However if you’re miserable and your expressing that to your family let me know. I want nothing more than you to be completely happy. I called the military pay line today to find our that you requested I not be a power of attorney to be eligible to find out about your pay if needed that I guess is when all this clicked, I am in a financial crisis, I love you Dan. Love Court

2006-10-30 18:16:03 · 22 answers · asked by daniel e 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Has any one felt like killing them self’s after they thought they found their soul mate but did not work out the way you hoped. I know I have asked similar question in the past but I really feel like my life is over because I am in love with this girl who only sees me as a friend and is in love with someone else. Is this normal for a 24 year old guy like me who has been single all his life but then finds love and gets it rejected in his face.

2006-10-30 18:15:44 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

she oftens looks as if i dnt exist and gets irritated when asked.is she on something ?

2006-10-30 18:14:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

married for 14yrs,during that time you did drugs,alcohol,didn't practice your faith,cheated,then one day you snapped had enough,and left to get your head right,after one year your ok now, and have changed your life around,but all the people you used to deal with including your family won't have anything to do with you.your wife is still partying her *** off along with all the others and they live at your old residence,this includes your brother-in laws,her boyfriend, and of course the ole drug dealer who once was your friend ,but now your the wiser.do you let them have their life and you go on to live a much happier one? do you crash their party and have them all busted?do you let them keep the house and ask for her to refinance it without your name?do you ask for a buy out even if there is a twelve year old son living there?of course they're trying to prove that they are living a normal life and everything I say is bullcrap. but I'm tired of being walked on and treated like a door mat

2006-10-30 18:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 18:13:43 · 22 answers · asked by X 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 17
He's 19

He works, but doesnt go to college. But he is not a slacker!!! He is so funny and sweet I just have such a crush on him!! How should I subtley show him I like him?

2006-10-30 18:11:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well everyone, I have a dillemma... I like this girl, she's so beautiful, sweet, the whole package. I mean, we sometimes have a hard time getting a conversation going, but once it starts it doesn't stop. She sends me emails like "If you were to describe me in one word, what would it be?" and she only sends them to me, not anyone else. She told me to come see a fashion show she's in tomorrow, of course I'm gonna go. There's a dance this sunday that we're gonna be at, I'm gonna ask her to dance, maybe ask her out, but I'm REALLY shy, you don't even know. It's really hard for me to talk to her, plus a bunch of people are gonna be around... it'll be humiliating if she says no, am I just paranoid or something?

2006-10-30 18:10:22 · 12 answers · asked by Jordan 4 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal. If you have to ask someone else if your boyfriend or your girlfriend likes you then they probably don't.....If they screw around on you and your not already married to them then don't marry them....If they give you a disease break up with them....If you think that they like you too much then give them a chance.
Now how hard is that?

2006-10-30 18:09:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl of my dreams left me for another man. Her personality is outgoing and I am uptight and serious. She left me for a guy who is the life of the party and bar hops. The exact opposite of who I am. Her Myspace page is flooded with pics of her and her new "fling". I am doing what I can to move on. The overall effect is it is a huge blow to my pride. I dont drink, party, or even go to the bar. She does, she is extremely outgoing, and she is already seeing someone only days after ending a 4 year relationship. Am i wrong for being who I am? I can understand her wanting to experience new things, but does this mean I should change who I am? I feel like there is something wrong with me. While she is out having a great time, I am at home depressed. I just don't have that personality. Is there something I am missing?

2006-10-30 18:09:15 · 10 answers · asked by masksqueeze2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband ask me today to give him an anal tongue bath.i asked him what it was and he told me to figure it out .what is it and how do i do it

2006-10-30 18:09:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating