2006-10-30 18:13:43 · 22 answers · asked by X 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know but to me...it sounds like she wants/likes getting this kind of reaction from you, a lot of women test their mate just to see if he has got any backbone...and i have actually heard that couples who argue a lot that it's because they do not know in which way to express their love for one another ...so arguing is the only way for them to express themselves... these kind of couples are said to usually make some very passionate love also, the only concern is that you're both arguing in public, when you go on dates this is not cool....try and discuss things together, and then move on from it if you can.
2006-10-30 18:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that both of you have some growing up to do. If she is arguing with you don't give her the pleasure of an argument by feeding into her self insecurity. Ignore her and let her know that life is too short for senseless rubbish. If she wants to argue drop her off at home and let her argue by herself. If she is the one starting it maybe she does it for attention, because after the argument she will reverse the situation that started the argument on you so you will feel guilty. Or maybe she is not happy with you so drop her like she's hot, there is other fish in the sea. You seem like a sweet heart if this is bothering you enough to ask for advice she must be the culprit, let her go.
2006-10-31 02:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Hunniebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is one of those females who just like to argue. That's not a real good sign either. What kinds of things does she get angry and want to argue about? I mean a date with a guy is suppose to be fun (they are to me anyway, most of them and I would never start an argument even if it was NOT the greatest date).... bummer for you dude, you deserve to have fun on your dates, not argue! She might be a tad on the psycho side
2006-10-31 02:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by SKayeMesqTX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real every time you go out you argue then this girl is not for you .Find one that loves you and you love back .argue at home maybe natural but on dates NO NO NO .
2006-10-31 02:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by john h 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How enjoyable is that to spend the evening out with someone always wanting to argue about something. I don't think she's testing you....I think she's trying to make you miserable.
Good luck with this girl....sounds as though your going to need it.
2006-10-31 02:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the reason, you two are not compatible. You should consider being straight with her, tell her you're tired of all the arguing, and it's best each of you date someone else.
2006-10-31 02:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, depends on what topic are you arguing with her. If she argue about stupid things she may just teasing you. If she argue over more serious things and if you disagree with her a lot in that matter, then that may be a sign of incompatibility.
2006-10-31 02:16:57 · answer #7 · answered by Whatta 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have to tell you to ask her what her game is..... I just read a response that said that is the way of women ?? NO IT IS NOT !!!!!!!!!!! she is either playing games or is trying to act like some sort of goofy version of an adult...... maybe she only knows how to argue in a relationship....... I would strongly reccomend you sit down and just ask her what the deal is......... God bless
2006-10-31 02:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU KNOW THAT IS WHAT DATING IS ALL ABOUT . FINDING OUT ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON. IF YOU DON'T GET A LONG . IT IS A MISMATCH AND YOU MOVE ON. WHEN YOU FIND THE RIGHT ONE YOU WILL KNOW IT . THERE WON'T BE ANY THING 95% OF THE TIME TO ARGUE ABOUT ...MOVE ON MY FRIEND ,,,,, PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA....
2006-10-31 02:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by marshoberg55 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there are other ways to test ur partner & its got nothing to do with arguing......she might just hav becomin a bit hopeless about you so u also act in the same manner....this will get her to her senses
2006-10-31 02:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by greatbuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋