she oftens looks as if i dnt exist and gets irritated when asked.is she on something ?
2006-10-30 18:14:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well going through the same thing myself, women just want to be held alot of the times, and it seems all men want is just to have sex and go to sleep or leave. Just try and think of the special things u 2 done when u 1st got together. Take a couple of nights...2-3 to just hug her up when you all go to bed at night, tell her u love her, and that she looks beautiful, you know the stuff women want to hear, but keep in mind, no sexual acts these nites. Im sure once u do this and she sees that you dont just want sex, things will change for you, if not.. then it could be a million things. Thats the main one along with stress from money problems, then goes to affairs. Hope this helps you.
2006-10-31 02:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by shortnsweet362000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and have a good converstaion about how you feel. Listen to what she has to say, and when all is said and done work out a solution between the two of you.
2006-10-31 02:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yezzir she is on something alright.....
Step your intimacy up a few notches. its probaly boring for her. and as I recent ly learned on here, women can loose there sex drive around a certain age. Or when they become super stressed out the loose it. PAY MORE ATTENTION to your wife Bro...OR maybe there is another guy!!
2006-10-31 02:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by aukasted1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first mistake is asking her if she's on something. That's really insulting. Have a serious talk with her and tell her you love her but don't feel she feels the same. It's better to know than eating yourself up wondering what's going on.
2006-10-31 02:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think bout all the moments wen u used to make her special and then used to make love, mite b she also missing it, try and do something reaaly romentic, and give it ur best shot, i m sure she will come around, but hey give it a 2-3 days break before u do i, so that she alos waits for it
2006-10-31 02:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by hmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of asking her "if she's on something," tell her you've noticed some changes between you and ask her what's going on. If she says "Nothing," then tell her how you feel ("I don't feel affection from you like I used to, I feel like our love-making is rushed and it's like I don't exist or your constantly annoyed with me.) If she denies it, ask her if she would go to counseling with you, just to clear your mind. She shouldn't have a problem with a husband who wants to take care of their relationship.
If she refuses to go to counseling, go without her. Something is definitely up.
2006-10-31 02:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old she is, is she going through menopause.... Or is she having an affair.... or did you do somthing to piss her off that you didn't apologize for... There are many angles on this one.
2006-10-31 02:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't think you pleasure her very good, or not enoigh. Don't ask her if she's on something, just say you love her and if she doesn't want sex, that's alright with you, just as long as you have each other.
2006-10-31 02:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by nitro b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnant or PMS.Or shes fed up from one or more of your bad habits.Could be stress or depression also.
2006-10-31 02:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by bambina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,she's on the verge of leaving you.
2006-10-31 02:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋