OK welll...
theres this boy from my church ive had a crush on since the day i seen him.
i only see him on weds. and sundays.
welll.. i went two weeks without even introducing myself. then me and my cousin went and talked to him, we ended up sitting together at the beginning of youth group, and i got his number at the end.
well. me and my cousin talk to him on the phone every night for like 3 hours.. but tonight it was just me and him and we were talkin..well he KNOWS i like him. we were talkin bout my cousin and the boy at church she likes and then he says, do you like anyone at church? and my face was sooo red. im so glad he couldnt see me right then. WELL. i started laughing and said *** if you dont know. and he played clueless then finally admited he had known for awhile.. since i gave him the note(this was a day before i talked to him i gave him a note sayig i wanted to be friends)
k. well anyways. the first time we talked i found out he had a girlfriend. which made me SO sad but i figured ohh well couz i wanted to be his friend first anywAYS. ..what should i do. i like him so much. its just something about it i litterally cant wait till wed. how can i impress him? what should i say? i mean im the type of girl who knows how to get what she wants but im drawing a blank..PLEASE HELP ME. and oh. today on the phone we were talkin bout something and he goes, we have some kind of weird chemistry goin on here.
help please
2006-10-30 18:34:25 · 11 answers · asked by Deziix33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh im a virgin and im NOT planning on doing n ething sexual with him. and hes only been with her for two weeks so ya
2006-10-30 19:07:50 · update #1
it sounds nice and that the two of you get along so well and apparently he is aware of some kind of "chemistry." between the two of you. However, he is currently involved in a relationship, so that should limit how close you and him get.
He needs to examine where he wants to go in his current relationship. The decision, of staying with his current gf or leaving her to be with you, is up to him.
If you were to tease or entice him, that might lead to him cheating on his current gf. So, I'm sure you're well capable of "getting what you want," but in this case, you'll have to let him make the move. Feel free to let him know where you stand, but the choice is his to make.
In my opinion, the last thing you want, is to get romantically involved with him, while he is still with his current gf.
good luck:)
2006-10-30 18:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
iam alot older than you so please take my advice iam also a church going girl this is a good thing you like a boy in church as you have a better chance of marrages lasting bible says be evenly yolked talk to your youth pastor and pray that GOD choses your mate ask GOD to reveal to you if this is your mate ask GOD to bless you both with wisdom the good thing about this is there is pastors that can help you through this its a good choice that you are interested in a church going guy as same religion is important when haveing a family and trust is important iam happy for you that you have made anew friend in church its so cool when that happens if its the right relationship you will help each other and if its not the right relationship you destroy each other thats biblical also love is patient love is kind love is never puffed up
2006-10-30 18:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by polkahaunis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not going to look attractive that he has a girlfriend and you are moving in on him. He will think that you don't care about yourself. Guys like girls who know what they want but will not put up with a situation that shows they have no boundaries. He already knows you like him, there is nothing else to do. You don't have to impress him, just be yourself. Guys know when youre trying to hard and they will lose interest. Maybe he willl think that you are a better match eventually and break up with his girlfriend, but don't wait around for that to happen. Go date other guys and be busy...
2006-10-30 18:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, he already has a gf and i guess you should remain his friend until they break up. Think about it:if you were his gf, you wouldn't want him with another girl right? Anyway, if he's happy with his gf, you should be happy for him right? You don't have to be all sexual with this guy. He'll just get mad.
2006-10-30 19:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by freakazoid17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to him and let things progress naturally. Be yourself and have fun. If you start trying to impress him instead of just being you, you are going to end up embarrassing yourself possibly. He likes talking to you and hanging out so you got an in already. Just let it take its course.
2006-10-30 18:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by jaylynn_tx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just freak'n kiss him. Fuc*k the GF. The more sexual you get w/ him the better. if he repsonds in a way you don't like act like he's crazy and you never did what you did in the first place. Best way to sabatogge arelationship is to introduce a secret sexual element to it.
2006-10-30 18:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by evilive 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like, you should just totally like be yourself and like chill out a little bit. Don't try to impress him, be yourself!! :) Like, totally!!
2006-10-30 18:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by all 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey miniboi6666...her choice of relegion is none of your business. you are so rude to be asking her such a question.
2006-10-31 10:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey some times why?
2006-10-31 06:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by countryboy23johndeer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
em ... he has a GIRLFRIEND if he leaves her for you he'll leave you for smnelse so find another guy ... A SINGLE GUY that is
2006-10-30 18:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋