Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

what do u think what should be the behavior of parents with their children and children's spouses?
Do you think parents have rights to scold upon the spouses of their children?
Do u think it is ok for parents to always tell their children what they have done for them and now they need it back?
Do u think that a father can always count that he has spent this much amount on his son and now the son has to pay back that amount?
If ones parents do all this what he/she must do and how he/she can behave with parents?

2006-10-30 19:07:25 · 12 answers · asked by Bull's Eye 2 in Family

(For my friend)

I have been in love with my High school sweetheart for the last 11 yrs. We broke up in 99. I got married in 2000. I have been miserable and just dealing with my husband. The catch is my high school sweetheart is married as well with 3 kids and is unhappy. We see each other on a regular basis. We spend time as if we are married. We make love to each other and I cherish the ground that this man walks on. I know it wrong but I never fell out of love with him. I dumped him (high school sweety). My hubby on the other hand has no idea whats going on. Im sure his wife does not either. I get super pissed when he doesnt call me, nor when I dont see him. I know he has a homefront to take care of but I want all of his attention. I know its bad but I love him. Help Me

2006-10-30 19:06:40 · 14 answers · asked by aukasted1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he's a reali nice guy.cool n quiet type. totally opposite of me. im cheerful,bubbly n friendly.loves hanging out til late with friends.in short, i love the nite life.he doesn't allow me though.
maybe that was the reason i sumhow got closer to tis guy,F. F is nice,clumsy,caring n irritating in a way that can make me smile. i told myself nt to get involved wif him as at that point of time,both of us r attached.soon he broke up wif his gerl n my heart took over my mind.we became close,like a couple,except that i m stil wif my bf.i was confused but F seems to understand me.i start to ve feelings for F,but at the same time feeling so guilty towards my guy.at a point of time,F means the world to me.we shared alot of bitterswit memories together.things start to go wrong when his ex contacted him.F assured me everything is fine but i doubt it.
Nw,im with my bf n F with his ex.but i juz cant forget F.i tried but failed.juz wana feel his arms ard me again.but i cant bear to hurt my bf!! :(

2006-10-30 19:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by cathy 2 in Singles & Dating

im proper and the 'X" has an lawyer. i have court in the morning and i lost my voice can i have my wife/freind speak for me in the case if i write out what needs to be said. or do i have to have legal reprisentation. (sorry for the spelling.

2006-10-30 19:04:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend wants to know my email password. Tell mi wut must i do . Honestly i dunnow

2006-10-30 19:03:59 · 13 answers · asked by mommy2be 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 19:03:20 · 12 answers · asked by wannaknow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 19:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by olin1963 6 in Family

What can I possibly to do...today I had to be in court at 9am to contest a proposed judgment motioned by my ex's attorney. I also had to take my son to the dentist at 11am. I had asked my ex last wed. to drop our son off at my house today in the morning since the kids were with my ex this weekend. My ex never responded. So I had to go to pick our son up at school at 7:40am and then feed him cuz dad has no time. I live in the same town as the school and ex lives 25 min. away. So I was 20 min. late to court and find that the judge signed the judgment even though I had filed a declaration opposing it just cuz I was late. It didn't matter that I had to bring our son with me and it was partly my ex's fault that I was late. Then to make matters worse when the school called ex about son missing school, ex told the school he had no idea where son was. I am very frustrated!!!!! and very angry. What can I do to relieve the stress?

2006-10-30 18:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by cecimad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I divorce my spouse, who left marriage 2 b with his young girlfriend
after 21 yrs, He was temp ordered 2 pay on home, he foreclosed
on our home, was a no show on his being #1 'incontempt of court'
2nd court date and a 'no show' 3rd court date 2 finalized our divorce and based on his 'no shows' divorce given 2 me on a 'DEFAULT'. Judge also granted me a amount off his miltary retire pay, who can override this order, with his 'no shows' twice
and no lawyer 2 represent 4 him??? remember HE left the marriage.

2006-10-30 18:57:00 · 5 answers · asked by daysinn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am only 10 and there is this annoy girl we hav stupid rules at our skl
and what we hav to do is one class line up on 1 dot
now me and my friend megan lined u in another classes line coz thats where r other friends were
this annoying girl called charlotte and her only friend jamie who beats up people told of us nd now we r well done in and today we have to talk me megan charlotte and jamie together and make up and me friends with are teacher mking us be friends but i dont want to be friend with them especially her coz all she does is follow us and tries to join in but they said they dont like her in a nice way but she wont give up ? WAT SHOULD I DO ? at this stupid talk

2006-10-30 18:55:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im 18 years old and I've always been known as the rich guy everywhere i go even though i try not to flaunt it at all or tell anybody i'm rich but things get out... I'm not the greatest looking guy, im average... i dont get asked out by random girls that have no idea who i am... but i do get hit on by girls that have found out i got 7 cars and 4 homes... now i really liked this girl and i got her alone and i wanted to ask her out on a date then she started talking about how she is just going to marry a rich guy. Now i know she knows im loaded but why would she say that?? After she told me this i wanted nothing to do with her... but i had a feeling she really liked ME and not my $. I gave her a really bad look for saying this and i walked away. but do you think she just said this to indicate she liked me or is she just a gold digger?

2006-10-30 18:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by private0909 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex bf broke up..he cud nt tolerate my bad temper and tantrums..HE broke up with me.. in the relationship he gt me pregnant coz I told him he DID NOT need to use protection coz i thought it was save.. when i found out i was pregnant..he wants me to abort it.. SO..is it my fault or his...?? And is he being unreasonable and irresponsible..?

2006-10-30 18:54:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the game of grammar if he is adressed as she and she as he in grammar

2006-10-30 18:52:58 · 14 answers · asked by honey1983 2 in Singles & Dating

OK so i made a fake profile on myspace( i know lame) and my boyriend of 6 months was talking to her. Well i had asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said yeah but it would cause problems between me and my girlfriend. then i asked him if he thought i (the fake profile) was pretty in hopes pof hearing something along the lines of yeah but i havea girlfriend or something but all he said was " yeah your pretty good looking" so then i was kinda sad about that, and then i was pressuring him from the fake account to hang out with the fake girl without my his girlfriend knowing and he was like no it will caue proiblems and then i was like well if u and ur girlfriend break up would u, and he said " yeah i will definatly let you know"

Im unsure by what all that means, i mean if your inlove with someone dont you focas all of ur sexual ateention and attractiveness toward them? Could this be a sign of cheating? or future cheating? what should i do????

2006-10-30 18:52:45 · 5 answers · asked by A m a n d a [[D o l l f a c e]] 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this guy, I admit I think he's cute and wouldn't mind If he liked me back. The problem is I don't feel like being jerked around and I don;t really get if he's giving off any real signals about how he sees me. He hangs around cassually with one girl who is pretty, IDK if she has a bf already, and seems like his type and mentions her accomplishments admiringly. But he does/ did this thing with me, where he acts kind of shy (looked away when I look towards him, can only answer in monosylabic words, can't look at me) But I tried asking him for something from him today and he was nice to me about it. Just polite not overly interested. I feel kind of sad about the situation b/c at first I didn't care, now I realize that I really would like a relationship w/ someone and now b/c of his odd cues he's kind of in my head. I'm not his type like the other girl but I'm wondering if I have a chance, am I just hoping 2 much. I had a dream about him protecting me and It felt really good?

2006-10-30 18:51:06 · 4 answers · asked by evilive 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 18:49:59 · 5 answers · asked by X 3 in Singles & Dating

He got with someone today, which is OCTOBER 30th, 2006. why did he lie to me ? what should i do ? i just got off a relationship also i've been having hard times, i meant Him & now he just blew me off while messsing with my head saying that he likes me & stuff, what should i do ? i'm so sad too .

2006-10-30 18:49:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i bet i can do it in less then 5 minutes? so get smart ladies. you don't need a guy that would do that to you and the only way is to make him want YOU more then me. think about it? is he woth it or not?

2006-10-30 18:48:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 18:47:52 · 24 answers · asked by FireKracker187 2 in Weddings

2006-10-30 18:43:40 · 15 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to church & this guy who is like 28 is there and he's like nasty to me, always giving me this sick look like I'm a peice of meat!

He's friends with my parents and he's over at my house alot. He flirts with me and I'm just like "WTF R U DOING!?" so i dont really talk to him.

I try telling my mom hes a weirdo but she thinks i'm being a drama queen

How do I get him to leave me alone. I'm 17 and he's 28.

how nasty.

2006-10-30 18:42:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that if it's not going to work out as a relationship, then I wouldn't mind a friends + situation. We are definitely very attracted to each other. I'm just starting to think she loves the sex, loves me, but just not like that. Is it possible?

2006-10-30 18:42:11 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

i regret making mistakes and mine well you decide all i did was sleep wid tristan my m8 he was 17 wha would u have done as a parent?????

2006-10-30 18:41:36 · 12 answers · asked by kitty kat 1 in Family

If u r in love with this guy..who has given u upteen chances to change ur behaviour coz u r bad tempered...n u got pregnant one day coz there was no protection and u told him it's save to Not wear protection on that day.. and he wants u to abort it...how do u deal with this?

2006-10-30 18:41:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She always asks my husband to go with her over there to drop off or pick up her kids.I got pissed I told them it had to stop.He refused then came to his senses.Then one day she threatened to leave his cuzin,so his cuzin told him to go make his house was okay.He stayed around there for 2 hours came home then got in the shower.I acted a damn fool.A month ago this ***** told me my husband was prince charming.Everytime her and his cuzin gets into it my hsband comes to rescue her which was true.What yall think was happening?

2006-10-30 18:39:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me n my bf had sex b4 we even were officially together....Does he truly love me?

2006-10-30 18:38:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes only 2 yrs older.

2006-10-30 18:38:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me & my bf broke up bout a week ago & today we were hanging out & me & his friends have been hanging out heaps & me & my ex talked & when i was at the canteen he was staring at me he only did that with me when we were going out & when they were all in the music room he pulled his hand out 4 me & then he was like stroking my arm & then tryed 2 feel my boobs .. later on in the day his friends mugged me & took my keys & me & my ex were talking he was helping me try find them & when i found the clues he was always behind me & he was looking at my boobs & was smiling & most the time he was hugging me liek a bear hug & i dont no if he is just bening nice & friendly or he wants 2 be more then friends

2006-10-30 18:37:38 · 4 answers · asked by Sexcaii 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 18:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In my region theres this thing called a blue light its where kids from there go and meet people there age I have red hair and I'm worried that chicks won't like me for it this Q is for gals only would you turn me down if I had red hair

2006-10-30 18:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by james m 1 in Singles & Dating