I go to church & this guy who is like 28 is there and he's like nasty to me, always giving me this sick look like I'm a peice of meat!
He's friends with my parents and he's over at my house alot. He flirts with me and I'm just like "WTF R U DOING!?" so i dont really talk to him.
I try telling my mom hes a weirdo but she thinks i'm being a drama queen
How do I get him to leave me alone. I'm 17 and he's 28.
how nasty.
2006-10-30 18:42:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, I would gain control quick in this sort of situation. Next time he attempts a conversation with you, just calmly reply, "You may be friends with my parents, but I am letting you know: I do not like the way you look at me and I do not like the way you speak to me. If you look at me again in a suggestive manner or make any sort of implication that you are interested or attracted to me; you, me, and my parents will be having a discussion about it, immediately, wherever we are at."
Scare him and don't let him think that your parents aren't a threat to him. Regarding them believing you, if it takes you getting your priest involved with a conversation with your parents, then do it. You don't want him to have control or feel in control. He could be innocent or a real sick person. You don't want to get hurt.
2006-10-30 18:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Tibbytwinkletoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take this to the PASTOR!! if your mom won't do anything about it, someone has to. and your mom should keep him out of the house, how much does she knows about him. get on you computer and do a back grown check on him, see if any thing comes up, you are only 17 and there are no way, you should have to leave your home when he comes over. you could go to your room, and please LOCK your door.
2006-10-30 19:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I am a Cristian, but I can admit that a lot of child molesters / serial killers are Cristian's in disguise. Go to the "Criminal Library" web site and read up child molesters. Show it to you Mom, please. Always trust you intuition. God gave it to women for a reason, quit maybe because he knew most rapist would be men.
2006-10-30 18:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by dumbblond 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he lord knows what your thinking and so do I and if he even touches you you'll call the cops.If that doesn't work try the whistle in the ear approach.That should get the point across!
2006-10-30 18:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Hey Jerk off! Shut your polluted mouth! Stay the F away from me! I don't like you! So F off freak! If that doesn't work then ask a couple of the biggest bad asses from your school to have a talk with him;)
2006-10-30 18:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to please stop coming on to you, that you are not interested in him that way and that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he continues to bother you, try to get him to do something with witness's around. Or if you have his cell number (for whatever reason) tell him over a text message to see what he says, you may be able to get something in writting to show your mom.
2006-10-30 18:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by jaylynn_tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haya im kat im 17 2 and i cop this sorta stuff alllllllll the time look confront him about it tell him how itz makin you feel dont let yourself get in a possision were you feel intimidated!!! u hav rights!!! omfg guyz can be annoying creeps!!! ad me n will chat stepmumhater@hotmail.com
2006-10-30 18:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by kitty kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on...you are playing a game! Ignore him...stay away from him...its simple. Dont play those little girl games with men.....its nasty
2006-10-30 18:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and tell your parents the guy freaks you out. If he flirts with you again tell your parents on him lol.
2006-10-30 18:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave whenever he is over and go and do something with your friends or somehow tape what he is doing and show it to your father.
2006-10-30 18:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋